Are pick up line dead?

Are pick up line dead?
Yes they are!
That the latest news I got for you.
How do I know this?
A teen age girl told me this today: she would go every week to pick up lines collection sites and read about the latest ones and send them to her female friends.
Yes, it's like a watch group.
Why do they do this?
They aren't lesbians who hate guys and want to make fun of them, they still like guys, but they want to "surprise" guys when they come up to them and told them some lame internet pick up lines.
They would look at the guy and tell him: "yeah, this one is from awebsite.com "and they'll be all giggling.
It's pretty embarrassing to gather all your strengths and go talk to a girl and get blown this way.
I'd feel so unfortunate.
This is the reason why I told you that the "traditional" pick up lines are dead.
What to do in this case?
Forget about the pick up lines and discover some great openers to use instead.
I've published a post last days about a great opener; it's called the opinion opener.
This one is pretty great and will get you a ton of positive responses.
The big idea about pick up lines and how they became really obsolete is that they will simply hand the woman your powers.
When you go up to a woman and you use a pick up line on her, this will immediately tell her that you are desperate and you went and learned stuff from the internet to get her interested in you.
This is not a great thing to do with women, especially if you know that most women know about the internet and would go too to pick lines website and see the latest ones.
This is the reason why you need to adopt and learn the opinion question opener.
It's one of the best things to know about.

Some songs to play on guitar

Some songs to play on guitar
Here are some of girl's most favorite songs.
Play them on guitar, classical guitar that is, to get a ton of success and admiring eyes towards your direction.
If you know how to play some guitar, you are truly going to have massive success with women, if you don't know, learn it, here is a great course to begin with: The Acoustic Guitar Method , get it, it's a must.
The instructor is very funny and will make beginners feel at ease.
I think that they should also write on the label of this course "side effects: may attract hot women to you very easily".
Anyway, I was playing some guitar and I thought to myself that it would be great to write some song's titles for you that will get you the most success with girls.
First, I will tell you about a secret I've discovered.
What style of songs does she really like?
If she likes pop or rap, you can take one of her very favorite songs and play it on guitar for her, ask her to sing while you are playing.
While she is singing, make fun of her, try to disturb her, be a naughty guy.
At the end ask her to pay you for the performance.
I've used this trick and it got me always huge laughs and punches.
So, here are the songs that will get women either in tears or in love with you:
Starts With Goodbye - Carrie Underwood
Bon Jovi - Wanted Dead Or Alive‏
Most Beatles songs are great, especially:
I want to hold her hand
Norwegian Wood
Now, something very sad like: Rascal Flatts - What Hurts The Most would be great to learn
Jonas Brothers - When You Look Me In The Eyes
Donovan - Sunshine Superman
Plain White T's - Hey There Delilah
Mr. Big - To Be With You
Stairway to Heaven (it's a bit tough on guitar, but it's a great song)
Murray Head -Say It Ain't So not Weezer's
Him - Join Me In Death (I know, it's creepy and i like it, and surprisingly most girls would like it too)
Plain White T's - Rhythm Of Love
Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeros - Home (I love this one a lot, very easy and most people know it)
In fact, these are the songs I like the most and you can play other songs if you'd like to and one more thing, just try to think like a woman, women are emotional, so stay away from Metallica and other heavy metal stuff, that's the music I like but for very obvious reasons, I'll play what women wants.

How to make women talk to you

How to make women talk to you

Here are the two most important things to do to make women talk to you.
It's a male fantasy to have women coming up to him and starting a conversation with him.
Of course, to most guys, this would only be a fantasy and they would never know how to realize it or even that it's possible to do it.
Here are the two methods I've done it and I sure got some very favorable results from them.

• The first method is to have a something about your face.

I had this happening to me when I was just learning this stuff.
I went to a party in a friend's house, I was terribly angry at something and I soon noticed that some girls were looking at me strangely; one girl came up to me and started talking to me from nowhere!!
I was astonished, I didn't know what to say about this phenomena.
Later I found out why; it was because I had an angry face, I didn't smile nor look at girls nor seek their approval, I just was sitting in my place, totally self-absorbed and not caring the least about the girls in the party, the result was that I looked more attractive than most other guys.
The take home message from this experience is to stop showing the nice face to women in order for them to like you, what you should do instead is to look as if you don't care about asking women out or talking to them and they'd be the one trying to get hold of you.

• The second tip on how to make women talk to you is to wear something flashy.

I don't know about this concept much, but I know this:
Whenever you wear something out of the ordinary, women's eyes are going to turn towards your direction.
Women are addicted to novelty, don't believe this? Just look at women's fashion, every hour a new thing is coming and all women will literally change their wardrobe content every year, men will do it in a life time.
Women love things that are strange and attractive, and one of these things, in fact the best of them, is wearing vintage clothing.
If you've got some few bucks to "waste", why not go to a used clothes shop and see what you can get from there.
Most of the times you will find yourself surrounded by hot women looking for vintage clothes for themselves.
This one single tip is amazing at getting all women turned towards you; they will come to you and ask you about what you are wearing and where you got it.
The best items I've found so far are: jeans and hats.
Don't buy anything else if you are just starting.
Jeans and hats are the most attractive clothing items you can wear to attract women and make them start a conversation with you.
They will come up to you and ask you about your style and they will even try to get you to show them where you shop, the truth is that they aren't interested in knowing where you shopped, they want to take you out.

make her addicted to you

Create a deep connection to make her addicted to you
How to create a deep connection with a woman? I hope you know the answer to this one, because if you don't, you are going to stay single.
Women are very complex beings, yet they are so clear when you know how to talk and deal with them.
Here is the deal guys: if you can't understand a woman and create a deep connection with her, she will never feel satisfied or complete with you.
To create a deep connection with a woman, here are the tips I like to use:
I'm in a serious relationship now and I feel very lucky to have found a great woman to be with, and I think that part of feeling this good is the ability to always relate to her and understand her and at the same time my ability to never need her fully or depend on her.

• And that's the first tip: never depend on a woman, ever.

What are you??
Really, what are you?
You are a "male homo sapiens".
In the old days you were spending your whole life in the wild chasing and killing for survival, and you would never cry for help or injustice.
That's the same as today, if you don't think of yourself as capable or independent, a woman will always feel a void inside of her in what concerns you, she will always have a gut feeling of "not enough" about you.
How do you achieve the status of independence?
By working on it, buy learning and most importantly by wanting to become independent.
Guys, let's not talk about women for a second, in what concerns me, here are two things that got me to get my independence from not just women but from all people: travelling and finding my purpose in life.
Travel as far as possible and if you can find a car, it would be much better than traveling on a plane.
And if you can travel alone it would be much more helpful to you and when you are traveling, don't talk to people much, just admire the sceneries and meditate on everything you have in your life.
It will make you grow so much.
The next one is to find you life's purpose.
This is by far the thing that will get women revolving around you like bees around honey, no woman will know how to explain it but most women are going to feel that mysterious attraction for you if you've got a purpose in life you are working to get realized.
This one, I can't help you with.
you need to take a pen and a notebook and think of the things that make you thick and what make you the most full field in life, then write down a big objective you want for your life, even if you can't achieve it now or in a thousand years, write it, it will mean so much to you and you are going to base your whole life on it.
Just look at your objective every week and you will soon start to add new things to it and fix your overall trajectory.
I'm sure that I sound very "out there" now, but these are the two things that got me the most results as far as women are concerned.

• The next tip is to always face a woman when she is mad at you

Don't replay back, don't insult, don't scream at her, don't hit her or things, just look her in the eyes and let her blow steam, then simply approach her and tell her "are you done." While looking her in the eyes.
This trick will make a woman feel so confident about you and trust your role as the leader and the man.

• The third thing you can do to create a deep connection with women is to be playful with them.

When I was just learning how to attract women, I thought that this daring humor is just a point, I thought that seducing a woman will stop when you get into the relationship mode, I was wrong.
I've heard from a very great teacher and wise guy called Stephane Hemon http://www.ideagasms.net/ a great saying and it goes like this: "a woman's role is to always check if you are still the man, and a man's role is to always prove to the woman that he's still the man".
This is the reality guys, take it or leave it, why show the woman that you are daring and fun to be with and then fall into monotony and predictability.
You need to always surprise your woman and make her never doubt your leadership capabilities and your decisions, don't scream at her or beat her, just look her in the eyes and reassure her about you, that's what she is looking for.

attracting hot women

Why it's much more difficult to attract average women than attracting hot women?

What? It's much easier to attract hot women than to attract average women!!!!???
And the surprising answer is yes.
Let me tell you a story here, and I'm sure you may have had similar ones happening to you too.
A very dear friend of mine was in a club once, he was hoping to get laid and very soon, he was just learning how to deal with attracting women.
He saw a very average looking girl walking by and he thought to himself "this is the one" and he approached her.
Guess what happened?
He was brutally rejected, she told him in the middle of the club "get away as"wh"le!!"
He was just beginning to learn this and was nearly brought to tears by her reaction.
I felt bad for him but at the same time I wanted him to learn this lesson the hard way so that he put his standards much higher.
Do you know why he got rejected that way?
Because nearly all the guys in that club thought the same way as he did and told themselves something like this :"a hot chick will certainly reject me, I'm going to see this very "average/ugly" girl, she will feel very lucky to have a buy like me approaching her".
In a matter of a night, she grows from a 4 to a 10!!
Do you see where I'm going now?
Don't make girls that are bellow average into real hotties , you will regret it dearly.
Here is the deal: if you want to grow in experiences and you are still new, why not go after the gorgeous girls, if you get blown off by them, you will be the man, and if you succeed you will still be the man.
It's better to be eaten buy a lion than buy a hyena :)
Now, let's talk about my previous assumption that it's much easier to attract a hot one than an average one.
It's the truth, think about it for a minute.
If you have your act together and you feel that you know what you are doing with women, you will literally have no competition.
Why?
Because most guys are idiots and would never try to learn the art of attracting woman, they will always think to themselves to put more efforts or more money in order to get girls.
So if you know what you are doing, how to set the tone with a girl, how to approach her, how to talk and how to take things to the next level, you will be unbeatable, you will be the only real man she will see in months and even her whole life.
Don't sell yourself short!

How to tempt a woman to like you

How to tempt a woman to like you
These are three main types of men that will temp women. Try to become one of these types in order to make women chase you, literally!

I've always thought to myself about this issue: why do some men tempt women more than others?
They seem to get the smiles, the nice looks, the hot girls, the flirtations …. All the time!
I really couldn't figure it out until the last years; I identified three types of men that were really tempting to most women.
When I say tempting, I mean that women will be naturally attracted to them and will never think about the reasons or be stopped; they will automatically attract women to them.
1. The first type and the most uncommon one among most guys is the great dresser
I don't know if you've already noticed this one or not, but women are naturally attracted by guys who know how to dress.
They will be sitting talking to each other's and suddenly they would stop and all of them will be looking at this one guy.
So, to become this type of man you really need these few things:
Win against the fear of being ridiculed by other guys, this one is the biggest obstacle to becoming a great dresser, what women like isn't of the liking of guys, guys are nearly style blind, they don't know what to wear and how to wear it.
So, become daring when trying new clothes and use my all-time favorite advice on the subject: get a female opinion when trying to shop for clothes, it's my secret weapon, I've always asked a girl to give me her opinion on most of my clothes and if she doesn't like something , I'll never buy it, period.
The next thing is to go to a gym at least three times a week or do as I do, I bought a stationary bicycle and I train on it five days a week for thirty minutes and I also do forty pushups and three hundred crunches a day, five days a week.
This may seem to some of you a bit extreme and to others very lazy, but the trick is to find something that suits you and that you like and to do it on a consistent base.
In a matter of two years you will get a very athletic body that will fit all types of clothes.
Buy some great clothes that are female approved and get yourself a nice slim and muscular body, women consider fat guys as lazy and not attractive, even fat women themselves will say this.
What an irony!
2. The second type that will tempt a woman is the Bad boy
This is an all-time favorite of mine; I will talk about being a bad boy every time I write a post on seducing women.
They are naturally attracted to bad boys; this is maybe related to the women's genes.
They will hate him but at the same time they will feel a very *strong sexual desire for him.
This type of men if very rare unlike most people will tell you and most guys that are considered bad boys are noting but insolent jerks who will attract needy and weak woman.
Here is how you become a bad boy: you treat women as if they are your buddies and if they don't like what you are offering, you will be the one to reject them.
You also need to have the right body language that will convey deep animalistic messages to women about you and how desirable you are.
3. The third type of men and the one that tempt women the most is the uninterested.
This is by far the one that will get you the most success.
Why?
Because you may be a shy guy or a nerdy guy, but when you apply this style to you successfully, it will get you the most amazing results.
Women are really enigmatic; you can't really know what's going on in their heads.
They like to be taken care of but at the same time, they like being neglected!!!!??
This is why this type of attitude is very successful to tempt women with.
Act as if you own the place
Don't smile at women,
Don't even look at women when you are passing near them
Act as if you don't need their approval, in fact never seek the approval of a woman, ever
Don't talk loud with your friends, and don't try to be the clown
This type of character will demand that you consider women as nonexistent when you are walking or having fun.
When you are talking to a beautiful woman consider her as an ugly woman who is looking for and seeking you approval.
These are the main types of men that will tempt women every time naturally, choose the one you feel naturally inclined to and adopt it.

Are feelings bad for guys?

Are feelings bad for guys?
Who told you this? Who told you that having feelings is bad for men?
The problem is not with having feelings; the real problem is with sharing them with women.
Yes, that's the thing I want to discuss here.
No matter how much the guy will learn and know how to deal with women, he will always fall into this problem, most guys will; I did when I was just learning this stuff too.
You will think that she is the one and that it should happen now, so you wait until the end of the date and you look into her eyes and tell her: "I am really starting to fall in love with you".
Her colors will change, she will be less receptive and you will wonder what the hell happened!!!
Here is the thing: sharing your feelings with a woman isn't bad, however, to do so you should already be in a stable relationship with her.
That's the only rule you have to follow for sharing your emotions towards a woman, otherwise keep them to yourself.
The great problem with this issue is that women don't give a fish about your feelings and what do you think of her, it's true, they will tell you that they want to know how you feel, but if you tell them so, they will get bored with you too quickly.
Here is a nice analogy I gave to a friend sometimes ago: suppose that you are a little hungry, and you see a red apple in a tree, it's too high and you need to make some efforts to take it.
What if someone came and did all the work and give you the apple, would you still be interested?
I wouldn't be as interested as before, I might take a bit or two and throw it away.
Now, what if it was you who got up the tree and nearly felled down but hold yourself and got the apple, it would taste a million times better than in the other situation.
This is the same thing with women.
When they don't do much of an effort and they are lazy with you and not that much caring and you think to yourself that you should apply the "secret weapon" on them, and you go and tell her how much you like her or love her, guess what would happen?
Right, she would get bored.
However, try to think of your feelings as a secret that she doesn't have to know; in fact, you are going to hide them as much as possible.
She will be burning with desire to know what do you think of her and do you want to advance to the next level with her or not.
For women, they don't like you telling them that you love them, what they want instead is the expectation of that love, the thrill of not knowing for sure what do you feel about them.
Don't say your feelings to a woman, unless its hatred, until three months have passed, and even three months may be a short time to do so, better leave it at six.

The greatest perfume to seduce women

The greatest perfume to seduce women
This is the best perfume to seduce women, if you don't already have it, you don't really know the chances you are missing with women.

I've already written a post about the best perfumes to seduce women, but then I thought to myself that the selection was too broad and I've written about four perfumes.

It was a bit vague and many people complained that most of them were really expensive and that they would like me to choose only one for them.

Here it is, the best perfume to attract and seduce women.

It's a bit expensive and it's only available now on eBay, the last time I checked amazon and other retail stores, I couldn't find it.

In my last post, I've written about 1 Million by Paco Rabanne for Men , it's great and it should be in your possession, if it's not, get it as soon as possible, but there is one perfume which is the best of all and no other one will beat it when it comes to seducing women.

It's Marc Jacobs for Men .

I don't know why and how they do it, but whenever I put some and I go to a party or a club, women will start asking me all over the place about "the smell".

Marc Jacobs for Men is great but if you really want to add some great advantage to your smell, you really should add this tip:

Go get yourself some fruity scented hair creams.

These creams are not made to be used as a perfume, but they are very aromatic and most women would notice a fruity smell very rapidly.

The one I like to use all the time is Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus , really fantastic and will get you some very favorable comments from women.

I also like to use a peachy cream sometimes, it's fantastic too.

All in all, if you put on Marc Jacobs for men and use some hair cream with a fruity aroma, it will get you tons of great comments and a lot of women will truly notice you first and even come up to you and ask you about the smell.

Marc Jacobs is the best perfume to seduce women hands down; no other one will beat it.

mess with a woman's brain

How to mess with a woman's brain when talking to her

This is a mind trick I want to give you that will make your tears fall from laughing at what you did and that will make so many women don't understand you/like you/find you a great talker.
Don't you want to know what that trick is?
I hope you do, because I've never found a website in the whole internet that dealt with it and explains how to use it.
I got it from watching a great natural guy in a club making a gorgeous woman perplexed/love him.
This dude would do this:
He would talk to hot girls and when they are following him in the follow of the conversation he would change the subject to a whole new different topic.
This is the trick, don't underestimate what I'm giving you, this took me a lot of drinks and a lot of patience to get it guys.
Here is a scenario where I've tried it.
I'm in a corner talking to a girl and she is talking back to me, let's say about clothes or some items.
When it's her turn to talk, I will simply interrupt her and ask her about an actor or a new movie she may be interested in.
This will seem so stupid and really impolite but what will happened in reality is that the girl will experience many feelings and talk about ,let's say, five to ten subjects, if you pass thirty minutes with her, she will feel like she passes a whole week with you and she will trust you more.
This is what I do with this: I used it to get their phone numbers.
And guys let me tell you that this is by far the best technique I've ever seen that gets almost 100% rate of success.
You talk to her for about ten, minutes while you discuss many things with her, then you simply tell her, "See you later", you turn, walk away and then turn back and give her a pen and a paper and ask her to write her phone number and her name down.
This will work every time you do it.
Well, there is warning here!!
If your subjects are boring, no matter what you are going to tell her or the number of subjects you will discuss with her, she won't like you and it will have the revers effect on her, she will be like spending a year with a very boring guy.
Here are the subjects to avoid: politics, religion, sport, IT, communication techniques (don't ask me why, but I've tried it and it doesn't work), war, poverty… (In fact, any tear jerking subject).
Things to talk about: fashion, music, movies, gossiping others, cocky funny subjects …

Try this one and write me back about the way you had success with it, because you are going to have success, I'm sure, and post it in a comment down bellow.

Four tips on how to talk to women

Four tips on how to talk to women

Suppose that you know how important talking to women is and how to talk to them in an attractive way, what do you do then and what things to follow and what other things to avoid?
Here are four tips on how to talk to women that would help you get those smiles and attractive looks from women every single guy in the universe is looking for.

• The first tip on how to talk to women is to avoid saying "excuse me"

Don't ask me about how I got to know this one, it was horrible the chances I've missed for not knowing it, that's the only thing I'm going to say to you here.
How come do I ask you to be impolite?
And my answer is yes; the more impolite you are the better for you, really!
Here is the deal: when you say excuse me to a woman, what she hears in fact is: "I'm weak, don't listen to me".
Wow, relax!
I don't ask you here to become impolite every time with every woman, what I'm asking you instead is to do this only with hot women you are interested in.
If you do this with your female boss, I'm not responsible for the loss of your career.
So, here is how you do it:
You walk up to a woman and you start talking to her immediately, ask her what you want to ask her and don't say your excuses to her.
Women have this seventh sense in them: they will know when you are interested in them romantically or you are just asking her for getting information from her.
If you say "excuse me", she will automatically think that you are a nice guy who is only interested in knowing something or hitting on her, in both cases you will get a cold uninterested woman talking to you in a way you won't like, however, when you say what you've got in mind directly, she gets perplexed by this and she won't know what to think of you, all the better.

• The second tips on how to talk to women is to change the subject immediately when it's too boring.

In fact, you shouldn't un-involve her or bring to the table boring subjects, period.
Are you crazy? Would you give to a sick person poison?
Why do guys always try to talk about the weather, politics, economics, Aristotle, Gandhi, famine, the war …. with women!!!!???
Please, don't!
When you see that you've fallen into a boring subject and she is feeling a little remorse about talking to you, simply change the subject immediately, without asking her opinions or waiting for her to answer you back, do it immediately.
What would happen is this: a shock in her brain!
It's like someone who is dying and you apply defibrillator to his chest.

• The third tip is to stop saying sorry.

Well, this is the same as excuse me, there is only one difference: don't say excuse me when you are starting a conversation with her and don't say sorry when you are in a conversation with her.
That's the only rule you will need to apply here.
Whenever you say sorry to her, she will hear "I'm a loser".
Of course, there are situations where you have to say sorry: you came too late. Only one situation and it's this one.
Apart from this one, erase the word "sorry" from your mind.

• The fourth and the last tip on how to talk to women is to always be ready to leave.

When you don't like the way the conversation is going and her ways of ignoring or not giving you that much importance, just leave.
Don't get into morals and other BS, please, leave with your dignity intact.
You are going to have remorse later and you are going to think of how you screwed everything, but you are going to give the women rejection and pain and you are going to have more self-esteem than her if she is the one who provoked you.
The thing to remember is that you need to always have yourself as your top priority, don't let women walk over you and you'll be very fine.

Become brutal !!!!!

Become brutal !!!!
Have you watched the movie Conan the Barbarian?
If not, please, don't do it!
I mean it, don't watch that movie because Arnold Schwarzenegger is really "not a human" in it, how can a man grow his muscles to that degree without using pills or steroids shots??!!!
I want you to do something now, get a picture of Arnold in that movie, the poster is great, and I want you to look at him.
He is really great at that role of barbarian man.
Did you know that women are still attracted to this barbarian kind of men?
Ok, well not really that attracted but here is the thing: women love strong men.
You simply can't argue with this one, it's very clear, just go and ask women about their opinions on this subject.
No woman would tell you that she likes weak and naïve men.
I've written this before and told you how women think like "cave women", they still have the same brain and body features and unless women evolve to became as strong and robust as a man is, they will still want and desire men who are muscular and decisive.
By the way, being decisive is more attractive to women than being muscular.
So, my advice again is to think like a cave man, in fact, you need to read this story and think about the implications to women and attraction:
A friend of mine told me that he was walking at night with his wife, they had a little fight and no one was talking to the other, they passed near a drunk guy, he walked to his wife and tried to touch her, my friend grabbed his hand and gave him a serious beating while keeping his wife away from danger, that guy was half drunk and he was really a criminal, that's what the police told my friend later.
When they got home, his wife was all loving and nice to him, he on the other hand just kept thinking about what happened and said to himself that he would kill for his family if he needed to.
He told me that that night they had the best and most intense sex in their lives and his wife was very orgasmic.
This will simply back up the theory that women will love and want to breed with guys who are strong and very protector.
What can you do about this?

clothes that attract women

Where to buy clothes that attract women?
Here is a list of some of the best places and website to buy trendy and very attractive clothes to attract women.
If you are new to learning how to attract works, you've come up to the right place.
You will truly learn about some very "secret" places that a very limited number of guys would know about and go to.
In fact, when I go to these places, I often find myself surrounded by only hot women shopping for their partners, guys who are amazingly good with women and gay men.
Trust me, when you'll go there you will truly slap yourself and hate it for not figuring out these places before.
Let's start with the easy and obvious ones.
Even though they are very obvious, they will be very neglected by most guys, and they may even find that going there is a kind of humiliation in going there!
A word of advice: don't tell other guys about these places because first of all they are going to look at you in a strange way (like you are a strange guy) and because they will exploit this knowledge and create some competition for you.
Piperlime for shoes, they have a great variety and the prices are very affordable ( in my opinion), one more thing, if you are looking for quality and something a bit rare, you will need to pay a much higher price.
Oldnavy is fantastic, just have a look at their men's section and you will be bombarded with choices.
Banana republic is my most preferred shop for men's clothes, just go to their website and chose a set of clothes that go together, they have an option to choose clothes by fit, they have the best stylists to get the perfect clothes together.
In fact, I should advise you to go only to brands that are owned by the gap group, they are really great, all of them.
If you are in Europe, or even in some parts of the US you can go to Zara, they have the best shirts and t-shirts in my opinion.
Now, let's talk about the least obvious places, in fact, it's one and only one place that you need to become addicted to it, it's the salvation army shop.
Or any shop that will have used clothes.
This will seem very strange to you and you may even think that you are above this type of shopping , I agree with you, but you need to know that some of the best designers and stylists in the world will go there to buy clothes and get inspired.
Go read this article about what may be the oldest Levi's jean in the world, it costs about 35000$ to buy, so, these shops may have real treasures you may not be aware of.
Most hot women I know will tell me all the time about a great pair of jeans or some hat that they got for a buck or tow that made all the men's heads turn.
Have you ever heard of the expression "vintage", it's any old style cloths.
Try to be open minded, take a hot girl with you, your friend, girlfriend or even a sister there and get some items, not necessarily all your clothes, but you should definitely have some vintage clothes on you, they are going to make you so unique among other men, I've seen women go to strange guys in order to ask them about a pair of shoes or a ring…

How to talk so that women listen

How to talk so that women listen
I've always put major emphasize on how to talk to women, and I think I did pretty bad explaining it.
Yes, I have to say this now, before you read some of my previous articles.
The thing I did so bad that I'm almost ashamed of (no, I'm not really ashamed about this one) is to tell guys to talk to women.
You've read right, I'm nearly ashamed of advising guys and showing them some ways and techniques to talk to women!
Can you guess why?
It's because most men are going to just apply the first thing in these advices which is talking, and they will neglect the most important ones which will come later.
I'm really pissed off at this, last week; I've received an email from a guy where he "blamed" me for causing him to fail with a girl.
He wrote that I told him to "talk" with women and that my ways don't work.
Well, they will never work if you don't apply them.
Going to a woman and talking to her will never get you anywhere, what you should instead do is this:
Go to a woman and look her, in the eyes.
Trust me guys, this is one of my best advices about talking to women and even approaching them.
I will give you this one with a warning too: if you don't convey dominance in your body language, it will never work for you, this is the reality, accept it.
The second advice I want to give you about talking to women is to always have this mindset in mind: women want you to be ready to walk away when you feel heat or you don't like the way she behaves with you.
In fact, I like this quote from the movie heat: "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."
Wow, this quote says it all.
Many guys will feel the heat coming from a woman and they are going to think in their minds "it's ok, I'll do more, I have to put more power, more strength, more efforts…"
Guys, this is not the way to talk to women, if you are in a club and she keeps rejecting you and treating you like sh"t look her right in the eyes and wave goodbye to her and walk away.
90% of the time, she will be shocked and asking herself about the reasons, and she may even chase you or become nicer to you.
In all cases, you need to be the powerful part in this deal, don't ever let a woman give you sh"t or you will end up with it all over you.
Take care guys and don't ever send me an email about something I said which you didn't try fully, ever.

Master the art of flirting

Master the art of flirting
How to master the art of flirting with women and make every woman you flirt with (nearly) addicted to you.
In dating and attracting women, there is nothing as important as flirting.
Really, it's the art that every guy should know what to do in it and how to perform it.
A woman may be easy on you on the way you approach her, the way you wear that vest on you but not on the way you speak to her and make her feel.
And this is what flirting is all about: it's speaking and acting with women in way that make them feel attraction.
By the way, there are two other posts in this blog that will handleflirting questions and flirting games to do with girls, they are a must read to fully understand this subject.
So, I'm going to reveal to you three areas where you will need to excel and be really exceptional, these, are the pillars of the art of flirting with women and if you neglect only one of them you will be lost.

• The first pillar of flirting is being playful

I think that you may know this by now, no woman on this plant want a dull very serious guy.
Whenever there is laughter, there will be women around.
That's what I've heard a guy say once.
I was in a club some years ago with some friends, we were trying to find some girls to hang out with and we kept getting rejections!
It was a terrible scene to watch.
After some times, two other guys joined us, they were really funny and very vibrant, we took a nice place and we started chatting with each other's and having terrible fun.
We didn't invite any girl or gave hints to any girl to come; we only had fun and laughed.
So, we noticed that nearly all girls were glancing at us and trying to join the group, a friend soon invited two girls to join us and soon we were flooded by girls.
We were at the center of that club for the rest of the night.
This story illustrates how women are attracted to fun and laughter.
So, if you are of a dull or of a very serious nature, learn to make a girl laugh and be playful with her.
In the end, that's what she was looking for in you, she wants a guy who can make her feel different from her already boring life.

• The next thing to do to master the art of flirting is to become an arrogant bad boy

I don't want you to think of women as something sacred or like a Qing dynasty vase that must be treated with "delicatese", holy respect and admiration.
Trust me; I will usefully kick a girl in the butt as soon as I have the opportunity. (Don't do it if you aren't playing with her and she doesn't know you well)
This is how you are going to separate yourself from the losers.
The trick with arrogance is that you have to be always daring with your humor, if you feel like she is teasing you, don't freeze and do nothing about it, instead tease her back.
I've got a great article in my website that deals with the subject of teasing a girl, it's a must read: How to tease women.
You need to always look at the losers with women and do the very opposite.
Here are some ideas to start with:
Call women names
Hit her gently if you don't like something
imitate a weak guy with them
Don't ask them for decisions, advice or guidance, just go and do your thing
Imitate them in a very funny way
Romance them in a very obvious way and why not even imitate the Italian accent while you are doing it

• The third are is the most important: be ready to leave

You may think that this one is very inappropriate and that it's not that helpful in flirting, trust me, it is.
When you are flirting with a woman the first times and deep down in you, you are telling yourself that if you don't like what she will tell you or the way she will act with you, you are going to leave, she will be much more attracted to you and will not want to do something to chase you away.
Many guys will complain that the girl they are attracted to will not like them, however, the girls that they don't like will keep on chasing them all the time.
It's the same thing, if a woman sees you as scares and very rapidly depleting, she will do whatever possible to keep you with her.

I'm the guy your mother warned you about

I'm the guy your mother warned you about

I was having a chat with a friend of mine lately and he was wearing a t-shirt in which there was this saying written " I'm the guy your mother warned you about" and I was really intrigued by it and thought to myself why not ask him about the feedback he got from girls.
To my surprise, he told me that when he was in a club the other night, many girls kept looking at him daringly, he isn't very good with girls and he didn't know what to do with it.
So, my advice for him was that he should be laid back and very arrogant about it when girls keep looking at him as he is wearing that t-shirt.
He did it the next night, he had a much laid back attitude (I was with him and I noticed how he was looking) and he had a provoking eye contact with girls.
I couldn't believe the effects and the responses it got him.
He was really the star of that night among all girls, they looked at him daringly and he would not smile nor say a word to them.
Soon he went and approached a girl; she immediately told him that he was very mean looking guy.
He agreed arrogantly and hand her a pan and a piece of paper, and told her to write her name and number.
That's the only number he got that night and it was from one of the most beautiful girl's I've ever seen.
The lesson to be taken here is that you need to be daring and thought provoking with girls, in attracting women; there is no nice guy attitude.

Best clothes to attract women

Best clothes to attract women
These are the two the best clothes to attract women and to always have them when you are going out.

• The first one of these clothes is great jeans.

I don't know what's wrong with guys nowadays; they all seem to avoid blue jeans!!
I really don't know why some of them will buy yellow, white … jeans and avoid the classical blue jeans!
The other day, I was sipping a cup of tea in a terrace of a great coffee house, I was looking at the passers and no one in the passing guys had blue jeans.
Most of them simply were wearing shorts or other unattractive things.
Look, if you are interested in attracting women, you need to get yourself some really classy blue jeans.
And I'm not talking here about blue jeans that are tiered and "trendy", most 25 and up women don't like them and they seem to consider them pretty childish.
My advice is to get yourself one pair of Levis blue jeans , they are classical and if you are going to a party or a club, you'll be really one in a hundred guys who wears them.

• The second clothe to attract women is a nice pair of shoes.

These are the heart of the matter.
In fact, forget about the jeans and other BS you've been reading elsewhere in the internet, if you can get a great pair of shoes, no matter what you wear with them, it will look great.
I've made this discovery years ago.
I would go out and look all over for the perfect jeans, the perfect shirt, and the perfect hair style and yet I was invisible to most women.
Then I asked a girl about what I was doing wrong and she immediately answered with "your shoes are horrible".
Back then I thought that I had a nice pair of shoes, but the truth is that they were expensive but not that great looking.
I took the advice of that girl and I went to shop, again I made the same mistake, I thought of shoes with my male brain.
I thought that any robust and cool looking shoes would be perfect, I was wrong.
The best shoes are the classy ones that have a great dark black or dark brown and no motives or decorations on them.
As said in a previous post, the simpler the better.
You need to shop with a girl to get this shoes style thing handled the first time.
Don't think to yourself that you don't have a girl to go with, most girls in shoe shops would be terribly available when you ask them about style and choosing some clothes for you, they will do it with a great wide open smile.
You only need to know how to ask them.
Here is a formula I've been using in the past years: "excuse me, I'd like a female opinion on these shoes, I'm traveling next week and I want to try something that has a female touch to it."
Most women would be like hypnotized by this and they will jump to serve you.
In fact, I've used this same line as a pick line for more than one occasion and it always got me good responses.

These are the best clothes to attract women in my opinion, try to always pay careful attention to them, once you got a style that gets you some great responses from women, stick to it.

Why weak men are unattractive

Why weak men are unattractive?
Why weak men don't attract women?
What's wrong with being weak?
I'm not going to give you any technique here or advice about meeting women (don't worry, I'll give you one or two), what I'm going to tell you instead is why women tend to find macho men more attractive and what to do if you are a weak guy.
Why women like macho guys more?
I don't know!
Relax; I know why, I was just teasing you.
Women find macho guys attractive because they are wired to find macho guys attractive, so much of a repetition here!
Humans are biological creatures and evolved like every other species in this earth.
Hundreds of years ago, the world didn't have this much abundance of security and food as we have today.
You may think that living in a city is dangerous, but what if you lived in a far village where your house was isolated from the rest of the houses and you had a wife and three little kids with you.
That's what life looked like hundreds of years ago.
And trust me, back then, crime was something very usual and rape was a normal thing to hear about.
Women as you may already know are pretty much vulnerable; they can't defend themselves, especially when they are pregnant.
So, if you were a nice, weak, indecisive guy who can't kill another guy for your wife and kids, you'd be dead!
That's the reality of our past, no one was safe.
This is the reason why women tend to like men who are strong and aggressive when it comes to choosing a sexual partner.
They want a guy who can defend them and even kill someone to do so.
Trust me; this was the rule back then.
Women haven't evolved since then, they are still the same creatures and when they see a weak guy, their biology will do everything to stop them from breeding with him.
However, when a woman sees a macho, dominant, aggressive guy, her biology will go crazy for him and no matter how hard she thought about it and how logical her friends arguments about how bad he is to her, she will stick to him and love him.
Now, what to do about these thoughts?
Start becoming aggressive and macho!
I'm serious here, if you think that being macho is for the "uncivilized" men, you will be alone and frustrated.
I'm sick of all these guys that write me and tell me that they want a woman to like them for themselves!!
No, she will never like you if you project weakness and indecisiveness.
Accept reality and change yourself instead of waiting for the women to change for you.
Here is a road map to use:
Go a to gym and start training, fat guys will never have the same amount of success as muscular guys
Build your body language features
Learn martial arts
Go out more often, or at least three times a week, women don't like nerdy guys.
Get around women, just go out and get rejected, the more you get rejected, the more you will become immunized to it.
Find stronger men and hang with them.
Learn and learn and learn, always improve yourlife.

Best way to win her back

Best way to win her back

These are the best ways to with her back, a three simple steps method that will get any girlfriend back to you in a matter of days.
Let's say that you are done with a girlfriend, but now you want her back, how do you do it?
You need to simply follow these three simple steps and she will be back and running in your arms again.

• The first step is that you need to see what you did wrong and promise yourself to never doing it again.

This step is the most important one and if your girlfriend gets back and sees that you are still the same with all your issues and insecurities, she will be gone for good and once and for all.
To do this right, take some time for yourself, let's say a week, buy a journal and write each day what you think you did wrong and how you should have treated her in order not to lose her.
This will be a little difficult at first, but you are going to notice that most bad things were your cause and that you were the one to blame for her leaving.

• The second step to getting her back is to stop contacting her.

I didn't write calling or texting, I wrote contacting her.
Don't call her, don't text her, don't ask her back, don't ask a friend to ask her ….
Leave her alone; give her time to miss you again.
How could she miss you if you are all over the place from the first hours of the morning until midnight.
Let her remember how great you were and she will have those warm feelings again for you.

• The third step is to start dating.

I know that this one will sound so wrong and so immature, but trust me, there is nothing in this world that would tell a girl that you have your life back again and that you don't need her as much as another girl.
This step is the one that's going to get her back and if it doesn't, you need to know that she hated you and that she wants to be gone for good.
Most of the time, she will start calling or making contact with you, you need to ignore her the first times or simply be very friendly towards her, then become a little warm every time you meet her.
How do you start dating? Well, the first thing is to avoid dating her friends or any other girl she may know or have contact with.
You should date a stranger girl that you don't know too.
Trust me, girls have their ways and a girlfriend will tell her that she saw you with an attractive girl.
This will spark her desires back for you.
The thing you need to be aware of here is to not become a pity bag, don't tell anyone you meet about the things she did to you and how you are miserable now, simply live your life freely and accept the fact that you are separated now.
When you are dating, don't ever tell the girl that you have broken up with your girlfriend.
Avoid it like the plague.
These are the three best ways to win her back, you need only to be consistent with your efforts and never lean forward again.

How to make yourself look stupid with women
By paying too much!
That's all, I hope you liked this post and come tomorrow for a new tip :)
Yes, that's the best advice I can give you on this topic of being stupid with women, so let's develop it a little and see what we can get from this little discussion.
How come that paying for women will get you in trouble? Isn't this what we saw in movies and TV and what our moms, church people, president, actors, father, teacher ….. all said about women?
Yes, that's what they will tell you about dealing and being with women: take her out sometimes, buy her dinner, take her see a movie….
The truth is that paying for women from the very first start is a great mistake that's going both to cost you money and your dignity and character.
You see, when you first meet a woman, she wants to test you and see whether you are a man or a pussy (little cat).
If you are a pussy (I like this word, I don't know why!) she will feel disgust in her guts and will never consider you again for the role of her man.
Why?
Because she has already got one (at home, a kitten mind you, you pervert, how dare you think of me this way!).
No, not really, because she has something inside of her called a "cave woman".
You see, even with our high technology and satellites, computers, McDonalds … we are still primitive inside, we didn't evolve much.
We are still 5000 years old.
And women too are 5000 years old.
Now, think about this idea for a moment: imagine you were in the times of the cave men, somewhere near the caves of Lascaux in France.
How would you treat a woman you want to have kids with?
Ask her out, call her four times a day with a stone telephone, take her to a fancy place where they serve very appetizing rhino…
Of course no, at that time you were either dead or looking for food.
You'd see her, look her right in the eyes, go to her and ask her family to be with her.
That's the ancient rules that are still working in most cultures today.
For example, in Egypt, a guy who is interested in building a family will see a beautiful women, look her right in the eyes (in order to express his mating desires), ask her parents for permission to meet her and would never take her to a fancy restaurant, he would take her to a nice coffee and see what she has in her mind, if he doesn't like her, he will say thanks and go his own way.
That's what you should be doing too.
I've had hundreds of interesting women revolving around me the moment I choose to apply this in my romantic life.
Think like a cave man and you will have more dates than any rock star you see on TV.
Never take her out and pay dearly for her, she will not like you and she will have a very destructive mindset towards you: he will pay for me.
What I do is this: I see a woman I'm interested in, I approach her, I let her know from my body language that I'm interested sexually in her and not as friends, I call her to fix a date, I take her somewhere I go usually, I order green tea for both of us and I ask her about herself and her family.
She will give me reasons to go on with her or dump her, I'm the one that decides.

How to always win with women

How to always win with women

How to win with them when they try to get you down and make you suffer?
This is what you are going to discover, a simple solution, a two letters word.
Let's begin by this famous old saying: women are bitc*es!
Yes, that's the saying most guys I know have always told me from the moments I had my first few hairs in my moustache!
Nearly all guys I know will think like this or in a variant of it: women are this, women are that….
So, I thought about it for a very long time and I know what is causing this.
Do you know what's causing this?
It's lack of knowledge.
When you don't know how to make a windows computer work, you will damn Microsoft and every product Microsoft makes and you will probably think of buying a mac even if they are way trickier than windows.
That's the reality; we always blame external things and would rarely put the "blame" on ourselves.
I really hate the word blame, what I like better is responsibility.
Especially weak guys, they would never think of themselves as the real cause of their problems.
This is the reason why you are going to see so many divorces.
I've once heard in a cassette program about a wife who always asked her husband to talk to her and to discuss what's going on with their marriage and her lack of love.
He always ignored her and when she faced him with his issues he'd tell her that she is forcing the subject on him and it's not a good time to discuss it because he is going to work, gym, see friends …
One day, he came to an empty house and what do you think he said to himself?
Yes, "that bit*h didn't tell me what's wrong, she left me", "why? Why me? I gave her everything…!)
You know the drill.
Nearly all your issues are your responsibility and you have to face them one day or another.
I like this saying a lot: My actions write my destiny.
Now, let's talk about the two letters words I've told you about and how to use it.
To always win with women, you need to be ready to say to her: no
Yes, no is the magic word that will get you high results with women every time.
How is that possible?
When you are faced with an issue woman and you know that if you tolerated it from her, she will give you hell some later time or nag you or not be nice to you, you need, in fact, you have an obligation to tell her no.
That's very simple; women need to see that you have a personality and character when with them.
Here is the things guys: don't think that "no" is a magic solution, you need first to build your character and personality before you can say true "no".
Otherwise it will appear so fake and not truly yourself.

make women chase you

A secret that will make women chase you

Do you want to know how to make women call you three times an hour, chase you in places you go to, ask you out ….?
I'm sure you do, if you don't, please go watch some cartoons.
This secret is pretty obvious to most guys when they think about it for a long time, however most would never do.

What they do instead is the very opposite of it.
So, what's the secret?
It's being high status.
You become a high status dude and any woman you meet and interact with will go crazy about you from the very first moments.
In this post, I'll discuss two things to start doing today that would make you a hundred times more attractive and you are probably not doing any one of them right now.

• The very first one is not seeking approval.

I have to tell you a secret first, I was advising guys to work on their body language, posture, techniques … and I totally neglected what's most important than them all combined.
This came to me like a total surprise.
I was with a friend in a coffee having some good time, two girls were sitting next to us, they were very ok and not my type, however, my friend wanted to go talk to one of them, I had to make some sacrifices for the sake of this friendship, I went with him.
My friend isn't someone who doesn't know what to do with women, he has courage and some nice experience, but he misses the targets most of the time.
I told him to keep his posture straight and to look her right in the eyes.
He did and it didn't work.
Why?
Because from the first moment he sat next to her, he told her that he liked her and he did it while leaning backward and smiling too much; it looked so fake to all of us.
I wasn't interested at all in the other girl and to my friend's surprise she was touching my arm and my hand, joking with me asking me about who I am and what I do …., she was ridiculous, the more she leaned on me, the more I told her to get herself together and have some strong character and to act like a woman.
She gave me her number and nearly begged me to call her, rest assured, I didn't!
My friend got nothing.
The trick here about status is that you have to never think of the other woman, always think of yourself, if your mind starts playing the BS tape about how you should not make yourself unlikable and that you should tell her so and so and do so and so, bit*h slap yourself!
Really do it, really, experiment now, and write in a comment how much you liked bit*h slapping yourself :)

• The other thing I want to talk about related to status with women is your needs and wants.

When I was interacting with that girl in the coffee, I had already in my mind that I'm only doing it for the sake of my friend and that I'm already in a relationship so I need to stay away from this BS.
To the girl, this looked so hot because I didn't care about her nor begged her to be attracted to me, like the five hundred guys who tried to talk to her that week, what she saw was a guy who is good looking and not caring about her.
Trust me, this will turn any woman on and she will start trying to make you feel attracted to her.
Don't seek approval from any one, neither women nor guys.
Have it in your mind that you do not need a girlfriend, you do not need a wife, you do not need her, she is the winner in this situation if you accept her and chose her, you are totally gold to women and the bad thing is that you don't know it.

Two things all nice guys do

Two things all nice guys do
Have you noticed this lately?
All my blog posts seem to revolve around the theme of nice guy/ bad boy?
It's not something haphazard, in fact for the last weeks, I've been thinking about what made a difference in my life related to women and dating and what I could see is this nice boy bad boy thing.
This is what has really helped me jump start my romantic life.
I won't lie to you, I was terrible when it came to women a few years ago, I couldn't get a date to save my life, all my girlfriends didn't pass the three days limit and I was frustrated with this situation all the time.
I was too much of a good boy, I let women throw tantrums at me and I tolerated every possible behavior from them without ever daring to show my bad boy side.
The shift came when I started reading dating materials and advise, I knew that I needed to change something and that something was to become more of a bad boy.
And one of the things I was advised to do was to look at these two things I always did with women and that were killing all my chances of success with them.
Here is the first one:

• A great desire to please others.

I've always wanted others to look at me and to tell me that I was a great guy.
I don't know about this feeling and where it came from, according to Dr. Nathaniel Branden, it got its roots in my childhood; anyway, I've always wanted others to approve of me.
This is what would happen usually:
I'd approach a girl, start a conversation with her and immediately I will put too many efforts into pleasing her and becoming the "best" possible guy for her.
The result was that I was alone all the time, not most of the time, but all the time.
She would look in the ground and think of any excuse to run away.
Now, what I do with women is this:
I look at them from a distance, I don't approach them, I look again, have a little confident arrogant look on my face and I approach them.
I start talking as if they were people I already know, I tease them and tell them that they didn't have the b**** to approach me, so I did it instead of them.
We would share a laugh or two and then I'd go away, not asking them for their number or name.
If I find a woman attractive, I'd come back and get her digits, if she is boring or predictable, I'd ignore her.

• The second thing all nice guys will do is that they'll want to please women.

They will never think of saying something offending to her or criticizing her for something.
This one is pretty close to the last one; however, there is one crucial difference, in this one, the guy will lean forward a lot.
For example, you see a great looking girl and you think to yourself that she is simply perfect and you'd daydream about her the whole evening while thinking what would your life look like if you've got a gorgeous woman like her in your arms….
This is too bad as you are going to put too many powers in her hands.
A great thing to do would be to look at that great looking women, approach her, start talking to her and immediately tease her about her looks.
"Wow, one of your legs is hairier than the other one, were you in a hurry?"
This will sound so rude, but trust me, it delivers the message nicely to the woman that you aren't afraid of her and that you are going to be teasing her all the time you meet her, you won't kiss her *** as 99% of the guys will do.
It's very attractive for women.

give a woman the perfect date

How to give a woman the perfect date
Do you want to become unforgettable to a woman? If yes, you need to give her the perfect date, a date she will never forget her whole life.
Trust me, if you succeed at this, she will come running to your second date.
Here is the deal; you have to have a perfect date, especially the first ones, that's the only way that's going to tell her that you are a very attractive and desirable man.

• The first thing is to plan your date.

When do you want to meet her? Where do you want to take her? What are you going to eat?...
You have to think about all the details you are going to face when with her on a date.
This is the only way you have of mastering your game and attitude when you are with her.
Don't fall into this mistake: don't plan what you are going to say to her and do with her, if you do this, trust me, you will appear as fake and/or a player.
For a woman, you need to appear natural when you are talking to her, even shyness will be a virtue when it's sincere.
You should only plane the material things, the place and the time, other things should be left alone.
1. The second thing you need to do to have the perfect date is to know what you are going to talk about.
This is the worst thing every guy will do.
They will look for a great place to take her in, great clothes, great cologne, but they will forget the most important one: a great topic to talk about.
Here are the subjects I like to talk about with women on a date:
Movies, music, meals she likes, foods she doesn't like, her parents, her sisters, pets, celebrities, holidays…
And the most important trait to have while discussing these with here is a great listening skill.
Women love to talk about these subjects but what they love the most is a man who would listen attentively to what they are going to say about these subjects.
2. The third thing is the right attitude
Look, let's be clear here, if you go to a date with a woman thinking that it's important and that she may be the mother of your children and that you are going to grow old together… you will screw things for yourself.
This is a dangerous attitude to adopt with women, instead you should relax and think of this date as fun and not that highly important for you, this way you are going to avoid many negative mental attitudes that are going to destroy your game.
Think of her as someone you may like in the future, but for now, you are simply trying to know her and see whether you can make her a part of your life or not.

Be a nerd when approaching women

Be a nerd when approaching women
Being a nerd will help you approach women.
What? I thought that being a nerd was unattractive to women?
The truth is that it's totally unattractive to women, unless the woman is a computer!
By the way, read this article and please don't do as it says: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8505641.stm
However, I'm not asking you here to be a nerd near the women you want to approach, what I'm suggesting you here is to do as a nerd would do.
I promise you that if you start applying this strategy, you will see amazing results when approaching women.
Nerds plan things.
Yes, a nerd will plan and think something in his mind over and over and not do it in the end.
You should do the same, except for the last part.
For example, if you like a woman and you want to approach her, try to find a plan in your head and think about what is she like, who is she with…
Don't make the mistake of planning for too long; try to not exceed three minutes when planning to approach a woman.
After you've figured out what is she like and what she may like, go to her and talk about your opinion of her.
A friend of mine used this same method like this:
He saw a very attractive women standing all alone, he noticed that she was well dressed and that she was a bit too formal, he concluded that she may be working in an administrative job, he guessed that she may be working in a bank since the place she was in was surrounded by banks.
He approached her, said hi and told her:
Are you a banker?
She looked at him strangely and said yes!
He replied, are you a banker waiting for a friend who is late as usual?
She looked at him as if he could read her mind and told him: how did you know?
And he introduced himself, had some talks and went away, it was a party and he was sure her friend would come any moment and cause distraction, so he just went to see his friends.
Later, her friend came and they both kept looking at him from time to time.
He was the event of the evening for them.
He soon approached her again and took her number.
Try to look for specific details when approaching a woman and use them with her, you will notice that most women will react positively to you and they will feel charmed by your wit.

making a woman fall in love with you

Three steps to making a woman fall in love with you
How do you make a woman fall in love with you? This is what you are going to discover in these three simple steps.

I know what some of you might be thinking: this is so manipulative and crooked.
I assure you, it's not that at all.
What you are going to learn here is how to change yourself and your personality for the better in order to make women fall in love with you.
These are no manipulative or "bad" techniques here, only ethical things.

• The first step to making a woman fall in love with you is becoming the best men in her eyes.

Think about it for a second, a woman who has found a great guy will definitively fall in love with him very soon.
This is the nature of women, whenever they find the right partner, a hormone in their brains will start being released, this hormone is called oxytocin and it's responsible for creating a bound with the partner.
Becoming a great guy is a very critical step to making a woman fall in love and it may take huge time, but there are some tweaks you can do to make yourself appear as a great guy in a woman's eyes.
Walk very slowly when near her, protect her, don't lean forward a lot on her, don't talk too much, have a great sense of humor, discuss things you like and that she may be interested in, be highly arrogant with her (it will create a sense of strength to her), be decisive, lead her, don't let her rule you, be chivalrous with her…
These are the traits and the techniques that you should apply when you are with a woman to make her feel like she is with a fantastic guy, a catch.

• The second step is to not help her.

This step is all about not falling into the trap that will kill love.
Because after you do something like this, it would be almost impossible for a woman to fall in love with you!
A woman would never like you if you let her take advantage of you.
What I'm suggesting here is not to say no to everything she asks you to do, but to not let yourself become her slave.
Whenever you allow a woman to ask you anytime for a service and even for money and you giving it to her, you will be running into trouble very soon with her.
The main idea in this step is to keep your services for yourself and not let her rule your life.
Have your own life and be independent, if she needs a little favor like fetching a cab for her, it's ok, but never ask her if you could do her a favor, it's the kiss of death for you.

• The last step to making a woman fall in love with you is to be rare.

How do you build an addiction to something? You give it abundantly and then you take it away.
And that's by the way the shortest way to making a woman fall in love.
You meet her and make her have the best time of her week or even year, you tell her that you think that she is fun and that you should get together very soon and then you don't call her for five days.
Not a word, not a text message no phone calls no nothing, total silence.
If she calls you tell her you are very busy and that you will call her soon.
You will become all over her head, and when you meet her again, make her have a great time with you.
These are the three essential steps to making a woman fall in love with you, you only need to be consistent and not rush these steps, give them time to work.

10 techniques to attract the ladies

10 techniques to attract the ladies
I'm going to give you my most cherished techniques to attract the ladies; they work every time, guaranteed.
Here is the deal: these techniques will work overtime you apply them; however, if you apply them separately, they will never work for you.
I know that this comment will likely get you to close this page but I wanted to give you the straight truth, I don't want you to fool yourself and think that by only applying one technique, women will throw themselves at you.
You need to apply all of them.
1. The first technique to attract the ladies is to talk slowly
I don't know why this is happening:
Nerdy guys will talk enthusiastically and very rapidly about an issue and bad attractive boys will talk very slowly as if they own the place and don't give a fish about what the woman may think.
In reality, I don't want to know why; I only know that it works amazingly.
Next time you are with a hot lady, don't start flooding her with "important" things to say, just chill and talk very slowly, she will know what it means.
2. The second technique is to turn your body away from her
This one too I've stolen from a "bad boy" I used to hang out with.
Whenever he talked to girls, women, me, his friends, he would never face you with his torso.
When I asked him about it he said: "I don't know what you are talking about!"
And it's the truth, he is a natural with women and this is what has led me to copy everything he did until I could figure out his method.
So, next time you are talking to a woman you like, talk slowly and don't direct your torso towards her, she will like you more this way.
3. The third technique to attract the ladies is breathe from your nose
This one makes so many women upset and turned off by guys.
I've once sat in a coffee terrace and watched the way guys breathe.
Most of them, if not all of them, breathe from the mouth, and when I say the mouth, I mean that it was wide open, a bee could enter their lungs and they wouldn't be aware of it.
If you breathe from your nose, you will close your mouth, if your mouth is closed, you will appear very strong and masculine (these two traits attract women a lot).
4. The fourth technique is smell flowery
Go to a cologne shop, choose a female shop assistant and ask her about great "flowery" cologne for you.
That's the only advice I can give you for getting this technique handled
Whenever you will meet a woman or even walk near a woman, she will notice it immediately and most of the time she will even throw a positive comment at you in the sort of :" what's that smell?"
We all know that it's not the smell that got her to say this but the guy who is wearing it.
Do it!
5. The fifth technique is have a manicure
You've read right!
If you didn't close this page by now, you are very curious and highly adaptable and I'm sure that these two great qualities will lead you into great success in the near future.
Trust me, they will.
What I mean by manicure is to simply have a great looking hands and finger nails.
I was like most guys very ridged on this matter, I would never allow a woman to tell me that it was a great idea for guys too.
I gathered my strengths and I went with a girl, I had my fingernails done and it felt great.
They were shining and very healthy, I felt great about my hands and my health and the best of all is that a woman came a few days later right out of the blue and told me that she had never seen a guy who took so well of his looks, I got her phone number so easily ad I could tell that she was very sincere.
Here is the deal: a lot of what attracts women will seems very strange for you, if you don't try it or give it a bad note before trying it, you will have very limited success.
You don't have to go have a manicure, you can simply take great care of your hands and fingernail every Sunday by trimming them and polishing them nicely and you'd be way ahead of 99.9% of the other guys.
6. The sixth technique is always have some mint gum with you
Do you want to attract the ladies? Have a great breath and you will be one in a hundred.
Women have a fantastic sense of smell and most ones I know have told me that they avoid talking to a guy simply because his breath smells either of beer, cigarettes…
Don't be like the rest of the guys, be unique, have some mint gum with you, they will love it.
7. The seventh technique is don't try to seduce
Yes, lean back and don't do any efforts to say something great to women or to have a fantastic seductive body language.
What you should do is this: don't care about the outcome and simply meet women in order to have fun.
I'm sure that you've already noticed that the women you weren't interested in are the ones that are the most interested in you and vice versa.
Do the same, don't be interested in hot women and you will stand from the big crowd of the losers.
8. The eight technique is look her in the eyes
Eye contact is the king of these techniques, master it and use it with women all the time.
9. The ninth technique to attract the ladies is to create sexual tension
This one technique is discussed in full details in my website, try to spare some minutes and go read that this article: how to tease women
10. And the tenth technique is Advance
Get from one level to the other very quickly, if you get stuck with a woman, she won't like it.
Women like guys who take the lead, and if you stay at the level of dating her, she will become bored and will certainly leave you very soon.
These were my favorite techniques to attract the ladies, these aren't the only ones, in fact, there are thousands of them in this blog, visit it every day to find a new topic.

Do women like rich men?

Do women like rich men? The truth
Here is the answer to the one billion dollar question: do women like rich men?
And the answer is yes, they love them.
Women adore, love and like rich men, there is nothing to be ashamed of here.
Why then? Why do women like rich men and how to seduce them if you are not rich?
It's the reality of our specie.
For thousands of years, we had only two things in our minds: find food, find protection.
If a woman in the old times could find these two, it will be safe for her and her children.
No need to tell you that women have evolved this way.
Think about it for a second: richness will provide a woman both food and security.
So this is completely natural for women to like rich guys, they are a passport to a better life.
Does this mean that most average, non-wealthy guys will have no luck with women?
What do you think?
Look around you if you go out, you will find a lot of women and even gorgeous ones with middles class and even poor guys.
The other truth is that a woman would rather have the guy who would provide her with the security than having his money.
In other words, what's important is the guy that created wealth and not wealth itself for women.
If you can demonstrate to women that you are strong and reliable and on your life's mission and purpose, they will feel naturally attracted to you.
That's the big reality that no other guy seems to get these days.
It doesn't really matter how much money you have if you have your life together and is following your purpose in life. Sure, there are many women out there who prefer to date only rich men, we call them gold-diggers.
You don't need these kinds of women; they are shallow and very immature.
But for the most part, women will find a guy who is determinate and very resourceful much more seducing and attractive than an old guy with a big Mercedes.
Women may seem to like rich men, but the truth is that they won't value the wealth as much as they would value the man who created it.
Find your life's mission and head towards accomplishing it and fulfilling your life, this is the best way to attract women.