Thursday, August 18, 2011

Master the art of flirting

Master the art of flirting
How to master the art of flirting with women and make every woman you flirt with (nearly) addicted to you.
In dating and attracting women, there is nothing as important as flirting.
Really, it's the art that every guy should know what to do in it and how to perform it.
A woman may be easy on you on the way you approach her, the way you wear that vest on you but not on the way you speak to her and make her feel.
And this is what flirting is all about: it's speaking and acting with women in way that make them feel attraction.
By the way, there are two other posts in this blog that will handleflirting questions and flirting games to do with girls, they are a must read to fully understand this subject.
So, I'm going to reveal to you three areas where you will need to excel and be really exceptional, these, are the pillars of the art of flirting with women and if you neglect only one of them you will be lost.
  • The first pillar of flirting is being playful
I think that you may know this by now, no woman on this plant want a dull very serious guy.
Whenever there is laughter, there will be women around.
That's what I've heard a guy say once.
I was in a club some years ago with some friends, we were trying to find some girls to hang out with and we kept getting rejections!
It was a terrible scene to watch.
After some times, two other guys joined us, they were really funny and very vibrant, we took a nice place and we started chatting with each other's and having terrible fun.
We didn't invite any girl or gave hints to any girl to come; we only had fun and laughed.
So, we noticed that nearly all girls were glancing at us and trying to join the group, a friend soon invited two girls to join us and soon we were flooded by girls.
We were at the center of that club for the rest of the night.
This story illustrates how women are attracted to fun and laughter.
So, if you are of a dull or of a very serious nature, learn to make a girl laugh and be playful with her.
In the end, that's what she was looking for in you, she wants a guy who can make her feel different from her already boring life.
  • The next thing to do to master the art of flirting is to become an arrogant bad boy
I don't want you to think of women as something sacred or like a Qing dynasty vase that must be treated with "delicatese", holy respect and admiration.
Trust me; I will usefully kick a girl in the butt as soon as I have the opportunity. (Don't do it if you aren't playing with her and she doesn't know you well)
This is how you are going to separate yourself from the losers.
The trick with arrogance is that you have to be always daring with your humor, if you feel like she is teasing you, don't freeze and do nothing about it, instead tease her back.
I've got a great article in my website that deals with the subject of teasing a girl, it's a must read: How to tease women.
You need to always look at the losers with women and do the very opposite.
Here are some ideas to start with:
Call women names
Hit her gently if you don't like something
imitate a weak guy with them
Don't ask them for decisions, advice or guidance, just go and do your thing
Imitate them in a very funny way
Romance them in a very obvious way and why not even imitate the Italian accent while you are doing it
  • The third are is the most important: be ready to leave
You may think that this one is very inappropriate and that it's not that helpful in flirting, trust me, it is.
When you are flirting with a woman the first times and deep down in you, you are telling yourself that if you don't like what she will tell you or the way she will act with you, you are going to leave, she will be much more attracted to you and will not want to do something to chase you away.
Many guys will complain that the girl they are attracted to will not like them, however, the girls that they don't like will keep on chasing them all the time.
It's the same thing, if a woman sees you as scares and very rapidly depleting, she will do whatever possible to keep you with her.

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