Are feelings bad for guys?

Are feelings bad for guys?
Who told you this? Who told you that having feelings is bad for men?
The problem is not with having feelings; the real problem is with sharing them with women.
Yes, that's the thing I want to discuss here.
No matter how much the guy will learn and know how to deal with women, he will always fall into this problem, most guys will; I did when I was just learning this stuff too.
You will think that she is the one and that it should happen now, so you wait until the end of the date and you look into her eyes and tell her: "I am really starting to fall in love with you".
Her colors will change, she will be less receptive and you will wonder what the hell happened!!!
Here is the thing: sharing your feelings with a woman isn't bad, however, to do so you should already be in a stable relationship with her.
That's the only rule you have to follow for sharing your emotions towards a woman, otherwise keep them to yourself.
The great problem with this issue is that women don't give a fish about your feelings and what do you think of her, it's true, they will tell you that they want to know how you feel, but if you tell them so, they will get bored with you too quickly.
Here is a nice analogy I gave to a friend sometimes ago: suppose that you are a little hungry, and you see a red apple in a tree, it's too high and you need to make some efforts to take it.
What if someone came and did all the work and give you the apple, would you still be interested?
I wouldn't be as interested as before, I might take a bit or two and throw it away.
Now, what if it was you who got up the tree and nearly felled down but hold yourself and got the apple, it would taste a million times better than in the other situation.
This is the same thing with women.
When they don't do much of an effort and they are lazy with you and not that much caring and you think to yourself that you should apply the "secret weapon" on them, and you go and tell her how much you like her or love her, guess what would happen?
Right, she would get bored.
However, try to think of your feelings as a secret that she doesn't have to know; in fact, you are going to hide them as much as possible.
She will be burning with desire to know what do you think of her and do you want to advance to the next level with her or not.
For women, they don't like you telling them that you love them, what they want instead is the expectation of that love, the thrill of not knowing for sure what do you feel about them.
Don't say your feelings to a woman, unless its hatred, until three months have passed, and even three months may be a short time to do so, better leave it at six.