Tuesday, July 26, 2011

flirting questions to ask a girl

Three flirting questions to ask a girl

These three flirting questions are amazing at getting any girl excited and thrilled about you.
Whenever you want to seduce a girl, you will have to flirt with her, it's inevitable.
Of course, you can use the old flirting tips and ways of being all sensual and touchy with her, but these ways will rarely work and they will only create troubles for you.
Instead, there are better ways to flirt with a girl, my favorite ones are these questions.
You ask the girl these flirting questions and she will be giggling and all excited about you.
  • The first flirting question to ask a girl is: the truth
I call this question to truth because it implies that the girl is hiding something from you and you want the truth from her.
But first, I need to tell you something very important about flirting with girls.
If you don't have your eye contact mastered, it will be impossible for you to flirt with girls and you will certainly fail.
I've written a recent post about shyness and eye contact, you should definitely read to know how to master using eye contact with girls.
With that said, let's explain "the truth" question.
You will need to ask her this question or a variant of it:
"You seem to like me a lot, I know you do, how can you explain your feelings when you are standing near such a great looking guy as me?"
This is a gem that you should guard secret for yourself, never reveal it to other guys because if it gets spread, it will never be as effective.
This question is all about creating sexual tension with the girl, flirting after all is all about sexual tension.
You look her right in the eyes, invade her personal space just a little and say this as slowly as possible.
After saying it, don't try to add more sentences and make a speech of it, just say it and keep looking at her eyes until she breaks her eye contact with you.
She may say something like: no, no I don't feel anything ….
The bad thing is to get hurt or angry, the best thing is to simply look her in the eyes as long as it takes until she breaks her eye contact and tell her something like this: "don't try to hide your feelings" or "why are you getting so nervous?"
Trust me; I've seen so many girls melt at this question and starting to giggle.
Use it, don't hesitate, but try to not over use it, two times with a girl is more than enough to create a magic feeling in her about you.
  • The second flirting question is: asking her for her opinion
I'm not talking her about boring opinions such as: "who do you think will win the next elections?"
No, I'm talking here about daring opinions that most guys will ignore when flirting with girls.
The second lesson you will need to know about flirting is that it's all about being daring with girls, if you don't like to advance, she will be bored.
The best opinion question starter is something like this:
"Who (you put a verb here) more, Guys or girls?"
My favorite opinion question is as follows:
Who lies more, guys or girls?
Now, the flirting is not in the question, it's in the answer she will give you.
She will certainly answer with something like: "guys lie more because ….", the stupid thing would be to say, "ok", the sexy thing is to tease her and be arrogant with her by saying something like "you are so full of it, we all know that …..".
Don't try to argue with her, your objective is not arguing, it's flirting.
I once asked this question to a very hot girl: "who farts more, guys or girls?" , she was a little shy about it and told me that I'm gross but when I pushed her to answer, she started telling me that guys are pigs and dirty, I told her that girls do it too, however, they tend to not have the same noise levels as guys.
Anyway, hope you see my point here: be daring and don't care that much about whether she will get angry about it or not, just say what's on your mind.
When she starts talking too much, hit her.
I'm serious, take your hand and give her a little hit on the shoulder.
Don't be harsh; just a little playful hit is more than enough to say a lot of things to her.
If she hits back, it's great, if she doesn't, flirt with her more by telling her that she can't defend herself.
Who knows, you may bring the animal in her to life.
  • The third flirting questions to ask a girl is: are you a bad girl
This one is a classic.
Don't get angry that you don't know it, it's very rare now to hear guys asking girls such questions but in the past, it used to be a great flirting technique to ask a girl if she is a bad girl.
You will only need your eye contact and something she did that you are going to interpret as nasty.
Let's say that she told you about a girl she got into a little argument with.
You can tell her: "did you hit her?"
Whatever she says, the only question you are going to ask her is "you are a bad girl, right? I knew it, even though you were trying to hide it".
She will giggle a little and then you should start calling her animal names, tigress, lioness, cheetah or any name that's associated with a wild strong animal.
Don't call her the B*** word, you will get in trouble.

You can also read this great article in the new york times, it's about happy marriages, but I like the section about flirting, and by the way, one question in this post was inspired by reading that article, so I encourage you to read it carefully, you my learn some new things too.

4 comments:

  1. Love question three, realy sexy and funny.

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  2. Question no.3 I think will be more flirtatious.:D funny.

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  3. There is a reason for that. It's because women tend to be much more influenced by a man's personality than his physical looks. A guy that has average looks but above average charm will always do better with women than a guy who has good looks but absolutely no charm at all.

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