First date advice for guys

Whenever I want to get advices about something, I go to the person who has suffered the most in the past and is doing fine now. In your case, I'm that
person. I've wrecked so many first dates and I'm not proud of it, however, there are some amazing lessons I got from doing this, here are some advices
you should follow on your first dates to keep from having the same fortune as I had:
I'm serious, I've manager to miss and to wreck many first dates with women, unintentionally of course, and women have always been a secret for me in
the past.
Here are the advices I wish someone would have told me on many of my first dates:
1. The first advice is to always be playful.
Whenever you go into a serious mood with a girl, she will go away.
Why?
Because you will be depressing her.
Many guys, my past self-included, think that being serious is a great attribute that is going to attract girls to them instantly.
This is not the case; it will make them run away like if you've got a dangerous disease.
On your first date, you have to be playful with her, you need to keep laughing too (not always, you have to convey to her that you feel relaxed and
calm).
Try to talk about casual things you like and you did in the week.
Move your torso away from facing her.
Laugh at the setting, people around you who seem to "not get it with women"
2. The second "first date" advice for guys is to be controlling.
For the most part, girls have hated the fact that I couldn't take the lead of situations, I always wanted to get them to choose and to decide for
themselves and me, and this alone will kill your chances with any girl you go with on a first date.
If you need to take one thing from this post, it should be this:
You have to always decide and never let her doubt your leader's abilities.
3. The third "first date" advice for guys is to never show that you are hurt or in pain by a test she throws at you.
A woman will test you, there is no escape in this, she will do so even if you are being great with her.
What's the aim of her testing you?
It's to give her reassurance about your manhood and that you won't let her down when you will be in a relationship with her.
Actually, tests from women on a first date are a great sign of interest; they will show you that she truly likes you and wants to take things to the
next level with you.
For you to succeed at her tests, you will need to have what I'd like to call it "the cold face".
If she tests you, simply look her right in the eyes, while having a subtle smile, and resume whatever you were doing, she will think instantly that you
are highly confident and you are going to be ok with her in the future.
Always keep this in mind:
Women want reassurance from guys, they don't want it to be verbal; they want to feel it.