Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Two neglected qualities women like in men

I've already written a great post about what qualities women tend to look for in men, these qualities are universal and all women appreciate them a lot.
However, I've noticed a strange thing with women: they liked these qualities a lot, but it's wasn't the only qualities they craved.
In fact, there are two essential qualities that most guys have totally forgotten about and think that they are unnecessary.
To my surprise, after looking closely at guys I know, I noticed that no one is possessing these qualities or even making an effort to acquire them.
And when I asked women, they all told me the same thing: they like them very much in men.
  • The first quality is optimism
I know, most of you know about this one but the strange thing is that no seem to bother on doing it!
It just make me angry when I see a guy talking about his problems, his issues, the rent, the bills, the broken cars, the angry dog, the losing team, the nasty wife ……
Come on!
Do you think that when a woman is walking with you she interested in hearing all your horror stories?
No one does, not even your parents.
You have to shine optimism every time you meet people, especially women.
It's true, being optimistic all the time will seem mechanical and inhuman, but if you are optimistic nine times out of ten, you will look much more happier and attractive than most of the competition.
Women don't like guys that are whiney and complaining all the time, they prefer happy guys, optimistic ones.
  • The second forgotten quality is chivalry
Do yourself a favor and go watch the movie: The Princess Bride
If you've already watch it, you will know how women crave chivalry and how men should do it.
Women are emotional creatures, when you behave in a chivalrous manner; you are in fulfilling a deep fantasy they have when they were little girls.
Do you have an idea what that fantasy is?
It's to be a princess, you can laugh at this, I did for about fifteen minutes the first time I've heard it.
Take it or leave it!
Every woman on this earth that was dear to her father was spoiled by names such as "my princess", "my queen" …
Women like to be spoiled by their men, and the best thing to do it is to be chivalrous with them.
Here is a great article I've found about the art of chivalry
However, in that article, the author only suggested four acts, they are the basic ones, but I like to add to them things like:
Holding the umbrella
Taking her hand when crossing the street
Standing up when she excuses her self
Saying "excuse me" when you want to leave somewhere when you are in her presence
….
You have to be her prince and protector; she has to be your princess.
I know that so many guys will object to this and say that women shouldn't be spoiled and blablabla…
Well, imagine how she would treat you if you spoil her and make her the most important thing in the world for you, you will get all her love and attention plus abundant sex.
Trust me; women feel sexually turned on when they are emotionally turned on.

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