Why some men like to control their women

In this small post, I hope so, I'm going to give you the reasons why some men like to control their women and what does this imply about them? And is it good for your game to control women or not? Here are the reasons.
It's not a secret anymore; I think you have seen these bad boys that are so successful with women, right!
You can notice from the very first interactions they have with women that they like control.
This is a very common thing among guys who are naturally successful with women.
So, why do they like to control their women?

• The first reason is that it works!!

Yap, nothing really strange or new about this one!
They do so because for the most part it works wonderfully with women.

• The second reason is that they are weak men!!!

Wow, stop right there!!!!
I know that some of you if not most of you are asking this question:
How can you tell us that such guys are weak?
Well, think about it for a second, why do they really like to do this?
A great dating and sexual guru I've once heard, Stephane Hemon, he is the guy behind the website http://www.ideagasms.net/ , by the way, his courses are great, not only great, they are very thought provoking, don't forget to check them later, has said something that stuck in my head for so many times and has really changed my life since, it goes like this:
"In life there are two primary emotions, love or fear".
Bamm, this may sound so boring and out there for most guys, it did to me the first time I've heard it, but it's really profound.
Just think about it, if you analyze every emotion you may be feeling, you will trace its root back to either love or fear.
Just think about it for a minute and you will see how profound it is.
Well, back to the guys who like to control their women, if you analyze this behavior, you will see a relationship between their fears of being left alone or hurt in general and their controlling behavior.
Now, after answering the first part of this not so short post anymore, you will now read the most important part: is it good for your game?
Well, controlling women is very good for your game?
What??!!!
Yes, it's a great thing IF you base it on love and not fear.
How come? (I like it when I start sounding like a fool with this: me questioning myself and answering it back, I'm such a lunatic sometimes)
Well, let's say that you like a woman, the bad controlling way is to get angry at her for any reason and try to diminish her, the great control is:
You like this woman and you want her to be with you, so you are going to tease her, not allow her to say stuff in front of you (a kind of control), you choose the place to go to, you oblige her to try a dish because you know it's great…
Because you love her and you are confident about yourself and your emotions, you don't fear her leaving you or hurting you, so, you will control her while leaving the door open for her to go whenever she wants.
If you don't get these ideas, try to read this article again and take notes, because this love/fear thing is very powerful with women.
Now that you know why some men like to control their women, try to never come from a place of fear and scarcity with them, it's the shortest way to losing her, instead, come from a place of love and good intentions for her while leaving her choice, she may not like the restaurant you took her too, it's ok, she can go somewhere else, but you went there because you know it's good, if she doesn't agree, fine, if she does, she will have a great time.