mistakes every guy make with women

Three mistakes every guy has done with women
I'm going to share with you three mistakes every guy on this earth has done with women and what to do about them.
We all know that meeting and dating women can be a frustrating experience and that for the most part, we are the one to blame for screwing things.
Yes, accept it man, you are the one to blame for that last girl leaving you.
We should not lie to ourselves; we guys are more complicated and strange than women.
Here are three of the most terrible mistakes we make with women, they are unknown to most guys, so try to notice yourself when you do them and stop.

• The first mistake is to think that you are not enough.

I told you that these mistakes are not that greatly known by guys.
I've written a specific post about this mistake, I really advice you to go check it out.
Not enough!
And the strange thing about this mistake is that the women are going to not like you and dump you while not really knowing why.
How do guys fall into this mistake?
It's a self-esteem issue; they think that they are unlovable.
Unlovable?
Yes, most guys live with a five your old kid's brain inside them.
When you were a kid, you father told you that you are a naughty boy and that he wishes to have another kid instead of you …. We all have been there!
This has caused you to think that deep down you are a fraud and you are not worth being loved.
Trust me; we are all something like this.
I know that I'm bringing terrible issues to the surface; you may be laughing now or reading these words and thinking that this is not true, but this has to be dealt with.
You must stop thinking that you are not enough.
How do you do it?
You go get yourself a copy of the psychology of high self-esteem by Nathanial Brandon, a great author and shrink.
I was having the same troubles and after reading the book and doing the exercises he advocated, I started appreciating myself more.

• The second terrible mistake is: wanting a woman to want you for yourself.

Come on!!!!
All nice guys have taught this to themselves once or twice in their lives, at least.
They don't want to change, they don't want to evolve, they want the others to change instead.
By the way, do you know the psychiatrists and the light bulb joke?
" Q. How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb?
A. One-but the light bulb has to really want to change"
I know that by reading this post, you are not one of those guys, you are already making things happening to yourself and you are already starting to change you reality.
You are going to see these guys tell you something like:
"I've done this and that and yet she dumped me"
The bad thing about these guys is that they are going to do the unattractive things over and over without thinking that they are doing something wrong.
You are also going to see them telling you that it's not their fault and blaming women, other guys, you …
The solution is to know who you are, what you want and go get it, go learn from more experienced guys, go to seminars, acknowledge the fact that you don't know what you are doing and do something about it.

• The third mistake is not taking risks.

If you want thing to be simple with women, you won't have a successful romantic life.
I'm not going to tell you that women are wired to like risk taking guys ….
What I'm going to tell you instead is that if you don't take risks, you are going to end up with the woman no one wanted and people are going to take choices for you.
Take risks when with women!
I'm not telling you here to go bungee jumping in order to please women, what I'm telling you instead is that you need to take the lead with women, make her discover new things she has never discovered, if you don't like an attitude, tell her about it and ask her to change it.