Friday, July 29, 2011

The biggest fears with women

What's your biggest fears with women
Really, what are your biggest fears with women, what do you feel makes you blocked with women?
We men can be very courageous, strong and dominant; however, there is one thing that will make us all think a little.
It's "women".
I've never seen something that makes CEOs, boxers, sport athletes … and even policemen heart jump from fear.
Women are scary!
So, what's your biggest fear with women?
I know what it is and if I'm wrong about it, I'd like you to write me a comment telling me what it is then.
Your biggest fear with women is that you won't be enough.
Yes, think about it for a minute, think about that irrational fear that stroke you when you wanted to approach a beautiful woman, think about it deeply.
Why did you have that horrible feeling?
Because you feared her not liking you for something in you, because you feared she would find you not rich enough, not a man enough, not handsome enough, not having a great hair …
Enough with these enoughs!
This is the biggest fear almost all guys have with women.
In fact it's not just about women, it's everything else in life that makes us feel anxiety.
So, where does this feeling of not being enough come from?
It comes from a low self-esteem, that's the most important thing you have to realize.
Your self-esteem will make you feel that anxiety when trying to approach a woman or even when you are with a woman.
A weak guy will deep down feel that he will screw things sooner or later with a woman, even when all the signals indicates that everything is going great.
Self-esteem is so important to dating, in fact not just dating, but everything in our lives.
Where does this low self-esteem come from?
I've read so many books and listened to so many tapes on the subject, in fact I've dedicated a year of my life ( last year) to study this area in depth and to find a way to increase my self-esteem.
And the one thing I've found over and over that caused this low self-esteem was related to our childhood, a great quote comes to my mind when I think about this subject , I don't know who said it, but he is a genius, : "we spend forty five years of our lives trying to forget about the first five."
Our self-esteem comes from the way we were raised by our parents.
It's a very long subject, so I'm going to offer you a nice shortcut to raise your self-esteem very rapidly, you will need to go to amazon and look for a book called raising your self-esteem by Nathanial Brandon, it's the best resource on the subject.
And to my surprise, most people on this earth never read something related to self-esteem, so by doing this, you will have a tremendous advantage on the rest of the guys.
Don't think that it's a fast thing to get your self-esteem high, it takes a tremendous amount of time and you will need dedication.
However, it's going to be the most important investment you are going to make in your whole life.
One more thing: I'm sure that you will face a lot of discouragements on your journey, especially a lot of distractions, this is the reason why you need a great time management system, this one of the best ones: The Pomodoro Technique

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