Do you really want it? I know, some of you will say that drawing her attention is not enough and that we should instead talk to her.
In my opinion, it can be a nice start, if you draw her attention, you can easily get her talking.
This line will get the woman very curious, and trust me, women can’t resist curiosity.
The famous line is: “is it true that woman ....?”
You approach a strange woman; you say this line to her while adding in something that will draw her curiosity like:
Is it true that women love men who are in control?
Is it true that women hate nice guys?
Is it true that men are becoming more and more feminine these days?
…
After asking this question, wait a moment for her to respond. Most women will say something like:
Absolutely…
Yes…
Or no and they will start justifying.
In either ways, you got her to talk to you back and the rest is easy.
Have you tried a great line before? Why don’t you share it with us?
An opener that I have been using with great effect is below
ReplyDeleteHey! Hows it going? My Name is XYZ
Yes it that’s simple.
However, to make it sound different and unique than how 99% of people do it, you simple replace XYZ with something interesting. For example, I am Indian and look it, so Imagine if I frequently open with ‘ Hey! Hows it going? My name is Dave.’
Why?
You are probably wondering why I do this, and you know what I still do. Just imagine me going over to a girl saying this. Even if they are not interested in being picked up, or they will be interested in your name with the very least.
Some girls will respond ‘ Dave?’ with a surprised or confused look on their face. I usually respond with one of the three below
1) Yes, its Dave. You can call me Matt, though but I won’t reply.
2) What? You have something against guys called Dave
3) What’s with the face? You need to go the toilet?
You have already created mystery and uniqueness in the first few seconds in interacting with the girl. Whereas, most guys create awkwardness, desperation and neediness.
God , I love this comment, so daring with the humor man.
ReplyDeleteYou can add one to your list of replies:
4)What, you think that I don't look like a dave?
when she responds to you with blah blah blah, start teasing her and acusing her of being racist to Daves.
Thanks so much for the comment, i enjoyed reading it a LOT.