An issue that has to be faced

I’ve seen it happen times after times.
It is devastating to most men and the big problem is that they don’t know what caused it.
I’m talking here about being rejected by a woman, and I’ll deal here with a specifique cause of rejection that most men have no idea it exist.
The cause I’m referring to here is: offering too much help to a woman.
Some of you may object and say that it’s a human thing to do and that only women of good standards appreciate it.
If you have such a comment, please post it and I’ll be more than glad to discuss it with you.
The problem here is not the act of helping a woman; the issue is within the quantity.
It’s the repetition of this help that causes most women to either dump the man or exploit him emotionally or most of the time financially.
You see, when you help a woman over and over, she starts to think that she controls you and that you are weak, especially if she doesn’t need your help.
If you want to help, help yourself first.
Don’t offer your services for free; if you aren’t asked to help don’t help, if you see that your help is costing you something dear to you, like your manhood for example, say no.
Don you have some stories where your helping a woman got you dumped or abused?