Valentine’s day, do you have to celebrate it?

I can feel it coming! Sometimes, I get scared of thinking about it.
I’ll tell you why.
If you bring some romantic gifts and shower her with love letters and affectionate attentions, be sure that she will perceive it as needy and childish.
If you do nothing, be sure that you’re going to pay the price sooner or later.
If she is the kind one, she may do as if nothing has happened, but your punishment will come as a cold shoulder, nagging, a negative critic that goes right into your heart …
You see our dilemma as men!!
Worry no more, I’ve found the right combination of things you must do to make it an unforgettable day for her, the fact is that she will love you even more for doing what I’ll be telling you .
First, you need to buy her something, no love letters, no heart shaped stuff, instead, buy her things like chocolate, one red flower, a massage session …
Then, go ahead and buy her a card, this time, it must be something romantic.
If you’re dating her, don’t.
If you are in a long term relationship, do it first thing.
Write something meaningful to her, something you’ve shared that shows that you are thinking about her and you like being with her, use your handwriting, don’t use a computer or have it written by someone else.
Send it to her address via the post.
On valentine day, wait until evening and offer her your gift (again, no romantic stuff).
Believe me; she will be amazed by this. I’ve tried it over and over and it always makes her cry.
One essential point, women get bored easily, change this pattern every year. In other words, don’t use the post all the time; you can for example leave it where she can find it easily. Use your imagination.
Do you like valentine? Has it ever been a nightmare?
Tell me your ideas and planes for valentines.