Thursday, June 16, 2011

The best way to attract women

Well, have you ever read in a magazine or seen in a movie that the best way to attract women in to be yourself?
I know, many of you already hate this and think that it's rubbish; I agree with you, you can't attract women by being yourself if "yourself" isn't great!
It's the real deal, being yourself is the best way to attract women, I'll show you why and how to do it in the coming lines, but first, I need to warn you:
Don't expect the environment to change, you need to change first.
That's my warning, nothing fancy, just an advice you will need to follow to start attracting women.
So, why does "being yourself" attract women?
Well, it's a long story that I won't bore you with, however, women have long figured out that if a guy is doing stuff that aren't his true nature, he is probably a fake person and will certainly cause troubles in the long run.
So, being your true sell with women does pay in the end.
How can this be so attractive to women?
I don't know! What I know is that it works.
So, do what works and shut up!
To attract women with your true self, you will need to polish it and make it attractive.
  • The very first thing to do is to start thinking good of yourself.
Women, by some science fiction miracle, can pick whether you like yourself and feel good about what you are doing or is a miserable person.
So, the very first thing to remedy anything related to your inner game is to get yourself a copy of The Six Pillars of Self Esteem, by Nathanial Brandon, here is the amazon link: The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem
It's one of the most powerful books I've ever read and will help you deal with a lot of inner challenges.
So, please, do yourself a favor and read it as soon as possible.
  • The second thing is to never count on women to make you feel good, in other way, to attract women; you will need to "NOT WANT" attract women!!!!!
I know, I sound very voodoo!!
But it's the truth.
Again, women have these very developed radars that are constantly evaluating guys and making it such as when she feels a guy is too much attached to her and liking her a lot, she will avoid him and run away from him.
A friend of mine is a genius with women, he does this:
He will see a woman and look at her, when she looks back, he will turn completely from her and turn his body language away from her.
I've seen it many times; the women will start looking and wondering "who is he?" "Who does he think he is?" "ohh my god, I so want him"..
Well, they will start looking back at him from time to time and will even pass near him to "let" him approach them.
When he goes to meet one, she is instantly attracted to him and soon will be laughing and hitting him in the arm and telling him how "charming" he is.
The take home message from this is: the best way to attract women is to be yourself on the condition that yourself is a great attractive thing.

3 comments:

  1. Overlook all of these adverts for miracle products that promise they will make you into a sex stallion in the bedroom. What a girl actually wants is to feel an intimate connection the first time around with a guy. And when you can make her feel that intimate reference to you, you may easily make her feel like YOU are the type of man she needs to be with.

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  2. These are just some traits and traits which are worth creating or enhancing in case you really need to be considered a catch in the overall relationship game. They don't take cash or a nice automotive, however they do take a while and presumably some habits modification, however might be more than well worth the vitality you expend.

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  3. Does this mantra effective to attract someone specific who has turned you down? I stay in US and she is in india. we are in touch but the level of intimacy that existed before has gone. Please help

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