Qualities women look for in men

Do you have these qualities women look for in men? If you don't, women will look elsewhere!
It's true, nowadays; women have way more choice than they used to in the past.
In the times of your grandparents, a woman would rarely see other men and if one of them asked her out, it would take place following certain standards and rules and it would usually end up with a long term relationship.

Now, it's a totally different things, women are the ones looking, they will select and make men pass al these tests, sometimes ridiculous ones to see if they are the real deal or just a "bad copy" of a real guy.
Here are the qualities women look for in men, try to have as much as possible in you.

• The first quality women look for in men is: fun

In other words, a man MUST be funny.
Try this little experiment: ask a girl whom you are not interested in of the traits a guy should have.
Usually, fun or funny would be either in the first position or the second one!
It's essential to know how to make a woman laugh.
There is one thing women will run away from in men; it's being boring and predictable.
A woman's nightmare is being with a guy who is dull and not interesting.
Are you funny?
If not, don't worry.
It's very easy to become funny with women; you only need to apply these two strategies:
1. Watch as many comedy shows and standup comedians as possible (I have to ORDER you to buy the whole seasons of Friends ; it will do so much good things for your humor).
2. Hang out with guys who are funny with women, it's important, not just funny, but funny with the ladies.

• The second is quality women look for in men is being daring and cocky

If you are funny but not daring with girls, you are simply a clown to them!!
A boring guy would make a woman laugh about old people or stupid jokes, an exciting man will make a woman laugh about her looks and things she does near him (of course, in a respectful way)

• The third quality is being strong

Women have been called for so many centuries in so many languages and dialects "the weaker gender"
And the truth is a woman is very vulnerable, especially when she is pregnant, so women have been naturally wired to like strong guys who can defend them and take charge when needed.
This is the reason why women will want a tall strong guy rather than a nerdy looking guy.
It's the reality, accept it.
I'm not asking you here to give up women if you are short or not muscular!
In fact, short men or skinny guys can too show strength to women.
It's called having a strong character.
In reality, many short guys can kick the butt of so many strong tall guys; women know this and will judge a man not by his muscles, but by his character strength.

• The fourth quality is (you've guessed it) strong character

How can you show you character to women and make them attracted to it?
There are many signals women can pick, but these are the strongest ones:
1. Walk tall, no matter how short you are
2. Don't smile at others too much
3. Look in people's eyes when you talk to them
4. Walk relaxed and slowly (like a jaguar, always assertive and self-assured)
5. Close your mouth if not speaking
· Now those are the physical qualities, here are the most important ones, the psychological qualities:
6. Confidence
7. A strong sense of boundaries ( you can say no when facing losing deals)
8. A strong sense of self (you like yourself no matter what people are telling you)
9. Don't ask people, and especially women, for their opinions about you, have this mantra in your mind: if they don't like me, they can **** off!!
10. Be comfortable around important people and beautiful women

• The fifth quality is: independence

Don't seek other's approval when you do things!
Always think of yourself first.
For example: if you want to buy a new car, don't think of what people are going to think about you and the car, think instead of how this car is going to make things easy, how comfortable it is for YOU.
Another important thing here: don't be needy around others, they will always disappoint you!

• The sixth quality women look for in men is being resourceful

For example: you are lost! The bad thing would be to panic and show her how much vulnerable you are at that moment.
The great thing would be to tell her "come with me" and to go ask someone to show you the way in a mature way while not asking her to do anything, she is in the passenger seat while you are driving and taking charge of the situation.
Women find guys who know what to do irresistible.
Don't ask her for help, be a pillar of strength.

• The seventh quality women look for in men is being classy

1. Do you know what good teas are?
2. Do you know how to tie a tie?
3. Do you know how to cook fancy meals for yourself?
4. Can you taste the difference between two coffees?
5. Can you go and buy some really cool and classy clothes for yourself without the help of women?
6. Do you know what spoons to use in which situation?
Women pay a great deal of attention to these "little" things.
It's true, they will not dump you for not knowing how to drink from a cup, but they will go crazy for you if you knew.

• The mother of all qualities in my opinion: have a purpose in your life.

One woman asked a guy in a coffee (yes, I was listening ;) ) : "what are your projects for the future?"
Guess what was his answer???
"I don't know"
She nearly had a heart attack when he said it and the worst thing was that he didn't know how he screwed things by saying that!!
I wish I could have slapped him at that moment, really!
As a rule of thumb, always have plans for your future and it's better they are related to you only and not a woman with you.
For example, a bad future plan is: meet a woman and have kids
A great plan might be: build my own business, get a house in (put the place you were born here) and find a great mature person to spend my days with and have at least four kids.
These are the most essential qualities women look for in men, try to have as many as possible in you and go read the best book there is about being the man every woman wants.