Why divorce?

Yes, why do most couples now end in divorce and in just less than five years?

Just have a look at these statistics: http://www.divorcestatistics.org/

It’s really horrible!

For example, 73% of couple will get a divorce if it’s their third marriage!!!!

That’s too much.

Why do you think there is such an epidemic of divorce?

To most people, they are going to tell you that it’s because of money, cheating…

Here is a nice article to read on the subject: http://www.psychpage.com/family/mod_couples_thx/divorce.html

I think that it’s the men’s fault, women are to blame too, but it’s very insignificant.

Bear with me this little explanation:

Who is responsible for choosing the woman?

Who is responsible for checking the woman’s psychology and maturity?

Who should have his life together?

Who will seek infidelity first?

Who is abusing alcohol?

…

The list will go on for a very long time!

Men are the ones responsible for divorce in my opinion, women will have a role in it too, but as said before, it’s not that important.

Here is the big mistake men will do to end up alone and broke: they will choose the bad person in the first place.

Most guys I know, and let me brag about this one, are pretty mature and advance in their thinking, but they also have some terrible maturity issues.

Like for example, most of them think that just because a woman is smiling at them and giving them some little attention, they should get her to become their girlfriend.

I totally disagree with this idea.

Most of my friends, who are pretty mature, think like this.

Now, if we look at the general population, we are going to notice that most men are worse at thinking about their future wife and they will tend to do very bad decisions.

This is the first reason why there is such a high divorce.

Men aren’t men anymore.

That’s the second reason in my opinion.

Men in the past used to be reliable, decisive, strong, driven by a purpose, mature, healthy, arrogant, aggressive, accountable …

Now, with all due respect, we have only immature, weak, docile, opportunistic men.

Just think about it for a moment, if a woman finds a great looking guy who is strong and knows how great he is and gives her a hard time selecting her and approving of her, trust me, she would stick to that man even if she’s in the Titanic and it’s sinking!

Another reason is that most men will fall into monotony very quickly.

I know a guy who used to run marathons and train six days a week, he was in great shape, when he would show us his sex packs, we would feel ashamed and like crying!!

He met his wife in a marathon and they soon got married.

Now, after two years of marriage, he has a big tommy and he weighs more than 110kg!

How could his woman see the man she loved in that fat guy??

I don’t think she appreciates him as she used to do in the past.