Do these three techniques if you are a nice guy
I've been told lately by a guy in an email he sent me that his chief problem was that he was a nice guy and this has led him to not being interesting to women.
By the way, I've read this very "funny" and interesting article, I highly recommend that you checked out and see for yourself what most women are fantasizing about in what concerns men: http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/world/what-women-really-want/story-e6frf7lf-1111115342066
Well, I know what he is talking about and I'm sure most guys out there have already thought this to themselves; this is the reason why I'm going to ask you to stop for a minute or two and think about this:
NICE GUYS ARE ATTRACTIVE TOO!
Yes, nice guys will get more dates, in fact they are going to get high quality women and be in stable relationships more than "bad boys"!!
How come this is possible when all of our lives we have been bombarded with sayings and ideas that nice guys are losers and that you need to be a bad boy in order to succeed in dating?
In dating, you need to make a very important realization:
Women are not masochistic!
I've never seen a woman in my whole life who wanted a bad boy because he slapped her or insulted her!
Women don't want abuse and they don't accept it usually from men.
So, why so many bad boys have much more success than nice guys?
It's not because they are BAD boys, it's something else.
What is it then?
It's the feelings they make women experience!
This is where all pseudo nice guys will fail.
A bad boy will make a woman feel so many great emotions all women are naturally attracted to, these emotions (some of them are not truly emotions) are:
Security, power, independence, courage, strength of character, dominance…
This is the reason why a woman is going to find it very difficult to end a relationship with an abusive man.
On the one hand, she suffers humiliation and bad behaviors from him, however; on the other hand, he makes her feel emotions no other man has made her feel.
Now, let's return back to our nice guy situation.
Why have I told you that nice guys will get more chances with women and what are these three amazing techniques you must know if you are a nice guy?
Nice guys will get more dates if they know how to make a woman feel emotions she is naturally attracted to.
Period, if a nice guy isn't able to do this, no matter how hard he tries with a woman, he will always fail.
Think about it for a second: a bad boy has two facets, one bad and the other one exciting.
Now, what if a nice guy adopted the fascinating facet to his personality while maintaining the good facet?
He will become unbelievably attractive to a woman.
She will leave family fortune, work and everything to be with him, I've seen this happen so many times.
This is doable!
For example, she said something you didn't like for more than one time to you or has been neglecting you and not paying attention to you, you simply look her in the eyes and leave while saying nothing, not blaming her, not insulting her, just leave.
Be cool inside, don't let her see that you are nervous or angry, one of my friends would be smiling at a woman and saying to her " it wasn't nice knowing you, good luck" and he walked away!
She will be shocked, she will call you names with her friends, you will become a loser to her, and she will call you in a week saying nice things and trying to get another date from you.
Whenever you invite a woman, it's your responsibility to take her somewhere of your choice, if you want to be nice to her and ask her to choose, you are in fact saying to her implicitly that you are not man enough and that she should take care of you, you will become a burden to her, and no one like a burden.
This is what I like to do:
I already have a place I want to go to in mind, I meet her, I take a cab and I tell him where to, she is sitting near me, we arrive, we have a great time, I make her experience exciting moments, we walk together for a while, I tell her bye.
The idea here is to not be concerned with what she may think, do you thing and be your own judge.
Of course, if you know that she is vegetarian, you don't take her to a steak house, you need to be like a chess player, thinking many moves ahead of the game.
By using this technique, she will know that you are the dominant part in this situation and that you are very fun and exciting to be with.
I've been told lately by a guy in an email he sent me that his chief problem was that he was a nice guy and this has led him to not being interesting to women.
By the way, I've read this very "funny" and interesting article, I highly recommend that you checked out and see for yourself what most women are fantasizing about in what concerns men: http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/world/what-women-really-want/story-e6frf7lf-1111115342066
Well, I know what he is talking about and I'm sure most guys out there have already thought this to themselves; this is the reason why I'm going to ask you to stop for a minute or two and think about this:
NICE GUYS ARE ATTRACTIVE TOO!
Yes, nice guys will get more dates, in fact they are going to get high quality women and be in stable relationships more than "bad boys"!!
How come this is possible when all of our lives we have been bombarded with sayings and ideas that nice guys are losers and that you need to be a bad boy in order to succeed in dating?
In dating, you need to make a very important realization:
Women are not masochistic!
I've never seen a woman in my whole life who wanted a bad boy because he slapped her or insulted her!
Women don't want abuse and they don't accept it usually from men.
So, why so many bad boys have much more success than nice guys?
It's not because they are BAD boys, it's something else.
What is it then?
It's the feelings they make women experience!
This is where all pseudo nice guys will fail.
A bad boy will make a woman feel so many great emotions all women are naturally attracted to, these emotions (some of them are not truly emotions) are:
Security, power, independence, courage, strength of character, dominance…
This is the reason why a woman is going to find it very difficult to end a relationship with an abusive man.
On the one hand, she suffers humiliation and bad behaviors from him, however; on the other hand, he makes her feel emotions no other man has made her feel.
Now, let's return back to our nice guy situation.
Why have I told you that nice guys will get more chances with women and what are these three amazing techniques you must know if you are a nice guy?
Nice guys will get more dates if they know how to make a woman feel emotions she is naturally attracted to.
Period, if a nice guy isn't able to do this, no matter how hard he tries with a woman, he will always fail.
Think about it for a second: a bad boy has two facets, one bad and the other one exciting.
Now, what if a nice guy adopted the fascinating facet to his personality while maintaining the good facet?
He will become unbelievably attractive to a woman.
She will leave family fortune, work and everything to be with him, I've seen this happen so many times.
This is doable!
- The first technique is leaving.
For example, she said something you didn't like for more than one time to you or has been neglecting you and not paying attention to you, you simply look her in the eyes and leave while saying nothing, not blaming her, not insulting her, just leave.
Be cool inside, don't let her see that you are nervous or angry, one of my friends would be smiling at a woman and saying to her " it wasn't nice knowing you, good luck" and he walked away!
She will be shocked, she will call you names with her friends, you will become a loser to her, and she will call you in a week saying nice things and trying to get another date from you.
- The second technique is an old one: choose the place to go to.
Whenever you invite a woman, it's your responsibility to take her somewhere of your choice, if you want to be nice to her and ask her to choose, you are in fact saying to her implicitly that you are not man enough and that she should take care of you, you will become a burden to her, and no one like a burden.
This is what I like to do:
I already have a place I want to go to in mind, I meet her, I take a cab and I tell him where to, she is sitting near me, we arrive, we have a great time, I make her experience exciting moments, we walk together for a while, I tell her bye.
The idea here is to not be concerned with what she may think, do you thing and be your own judge.
Of course, if you know that she is vegetarian, you don't take her to a steak house, you need to be like a chess player, thinking many moves ahead of the game.
- The third technique is calling a woman names.
By using this technique, she will know that you are the dominant part in this situation and that you are very fun and exciting to be with.
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