Friday, June 24, 2011

Become more attractive to women

A great guy I can't remember his name once said: "In life if you do not progress you regress".
To become more attractive to women, you will need to add some new ideas to those you already know about being attractive to women, you will also have to focus on areas most guys would neglect that will make you unbelievably more attractive to women.
  • The first thing you will need to focus on is: your inner game
I know, this is probably the most hated area to study for all guys!
I myself don't like it a lot, it's boring and you have to wait a long time before you start to see any tangible results.
However, this is what's beautiful about working on your inner game; most guys simply don't do it.
And when they meet a great looking woman, she will know immediately that they are lacking an essential part.
Here are the things you should focus your inner game on:
1. Replace short term gains with long term (don't lose hope too quickly)
2. Start to work on your anxiety and depression, there is nothing women hate in this world than a depressed guy.
3. Work on your behaviors with others, every one of us has his own issues, if you can't deal with others normally or don't have great friends in your life, you will need to read self-help books and materials about the subject (Dale Carnegie has got some huge books on the subject)
  • The second area you will need to pay attention to is your body language
Do you feel comfortable around beautiful women?
If you have the slightest doubt about yourself or your abilities, it will show in your body language and women are going to notice that you are not "normal" or cool.
Train yourself to becoming more assured and cool around women.
Here are some tips to apply to look more mature in your body language:
1. Always walk straight, never bend forward or backward
2. Don't cross arms when with a woman
3. Don't look at a woman for a long time
4. Keep your eye contact until she breaks hers
5. Try to be comfortable with yourself, in other words, don't freak out when you are alone
6. Always move and walk with your mouth closed
7. When you talk to people in general, not just women, move your torso to their direction, it shows respect and a great maturity on your part
8. Don't laugh too much, especially at your own jokes.
  • The next thing you will need to do to become more attractive to women is to choose a purpose for your life
This one will sound very strange to most guys and a little "out there"!
The moment you will think of a purpose and a path to go on in your life, women will find you thousands of times more attractive and you are going to notice that they have really changed in the ways they talk or listen to you.
Your purpose in your life should not be selfish and it must be something very big.
I won't go into details here, but you only need to know that you must have something to wake up for every day, something that motivates you as a man.
  • The fourth area to focus working on is: stop needing women and seeking their approval
In fact, not just women, everyone else.
There is a saying I like to say to my friends a lot: needing is loosing
Whenever you need others, especially women, they are going to let you go.
Whenever you need a job too much, some strange thing will happen and you will lose it soon.
However, when you stop needing it and you even start to think of other things to do, it will start chasing you.
Story time J
A friend of mine heard that the company he was working for was going to fire some people and that he may be on the list. He took it very maturely and started looking around for other jobs, he found none, so he went, took some money he saved, borrowed some and begun the process of starting a new business. His boss heard what he was doing and called him several time to change his mind and stay with the company.
He refused and is now really doing great with his life.
Stop counting on others to make your life complete!!!!!
  • The fifth thing to do is to: Be busy
Don't give women too much of your time, have a schedule that she should fit them in.
If you see that she will waste your time, tell her "NO".
There is nothing sexier to a woman than an unavailable man.
Don't ever worry about losing a woman; she is the one to worry about losing a great guy.
  • The sixth area to work on is your intelligence
I don't meant that you should be talking all day long about complex subjects, what you have to do is to become knowledgeable on a variety of subjects, you need to be aware of what's going on in the world around you, not watching the news five hours a day, just knowing how the world works.
Because women love a guy who knows how to take care of her and protect her, she should see that you know the world that surrounds you and that you are very confident about it and to become such a sharp man, there is a great concept you have to get about women, read about it here.

2 comments:

  1. Be well-groomed and tidy, but don't spend too much on appearance - a woman will rarely date a man who is prettier than she is.

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