Monday, July 25, 2011

know if she has a boyfriend

Three visual signs to know if she has a boyfriend

Do you like a girl but you are not sure if she has a boyfriend or not? These visual signs will help you recognize it in a matter of seconds.

Think about it for a moment, why waste time with a girl who is already is with someone, you not only would lose energy and time, but you may also lose a tooth or two.
A friend of mine told me that he liked a girl who worked at an office near his workplace, he kept admiring her for more than weeks and then, he gathered his courage and went to ask her out.
When he was heading to talk to her, he remembered seeing a car stopping near her; he didn't care and stopped the girl to talk to her.
She tried to ignore him, but he made the mistake of holding her arm to stop her (he was really in love).
Her boyfriend jumped from the car and the only thing he could remember later is his body hurting him.

No, stay away from women that are already in a relationship, they are a shortcut to really horrifying crimes.
Just open any newspaper and you will read about terrible crimes made in the name of jealousy.
So, here are the four visual signs to know if she has a boyfriend or not.
  • The first sign is she is alone.
This will sound like an oxymoron: she has a boyfriend, she is alone.
But no.
Girls that are in a relationships are most of the times only surrendered by other girls.
You will rarely see her talking to a guy calmly and confidently, instead, she will talk to him for some seconds and then go on with her business.
This can be a little confusing to most guys as they will see that a girl is talking to guys a lot yet she has a boyfriend.
If you think about it, you will know that it's not actually the case; she will talk to these guys in a friendly way without involving flirting or teasing.
  • The second sign to know if she has a boyfriend is she will be very friendly
This is somehow related to the first sign.
It's the most direct way to know if a girl is with someone or alone.
She will deal friendly with others and you will never see her trying to flirt with some other guy or be alone with him.
This is by the only sign to know truly if she has a boyfriend, because if she doesn't, every guy would be an opportunity for her to find a date.
However, women aren't like guys, women are monogamous by nature.
This means that if she is with someone, she will rarely think of another one.
This can be a bit tricky.
Why?
Because some women cheat!!
Yes, she will have a boyfriend, but she will flirt with other guys and even be intimate with another guy.
This can be very confusing, the best thing to do in this case is to leave her and to look for another one, you will never know, better let another guy get the beating than you.
  • The third visual sign if she has a boyfriend is she will have small emotional objects on her.
This can be somehow tricky to spot, but if you are near her, you are likely to notice a golden or silver chain that has a heart or any other romantic object.
You may be able to spot a small golden ring somewhere, if it's golden and it's on her ring finger, she is engaged.
You have to judge the situation to know whether it's a risk or not.
  • The fourth sign is she has a closed loop of girlfriends.
They will be all the time together talking and having their own private discussions.
They will be giggling and talking discretely.
You are going to feel that it's a close group.
These signs are the most accurate to know if she has a boyfriend, of course there are other signs, but most of them aren't reliable.
So, these are the sings to watch for and to notice carefully.
The best approach you can do with a girl you aren't sure whether she has a boyfriend or not is to go talk to her with your intentions very clear, you should tell her that you like her from the very start, if you are unlucky and her boyfriend shows up, just smile and tell him that he is lucky or any other compliment and leave,

99% of the times, the guy will feel great and will smile back, however, if you see that he's getting pissed, don't try to be a hero, just appologies and go away, guys go blind when a girl is near them.

1 comment:

  1. basic but very valubale stuff to know, thanks.
    I nearly got beaten the other night for not knowing how to read these signs.

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